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A blind leading the blind mentality seems to permeate the world. We don’t want our children to be taught about sex or they might have it. Yet we all have cocks and vaginas and asshole and clits.

Then there’s this thing called the Internet and it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out which goes where. Before you know it, little honors student and Christian Jessica Jane Lister is pregnant with football quarterback Cody Wall’s baby and they’ve both got genital warts.

We want our schools to teach creationism but not evolution but we don’t want our churches to support science. Hell, the Georgia Legislature is trying to pass a law that citizens have a right to carry guns into their churches, so we can kill the preacher if he says something blasphemous (like Jesus turned water into wine; wrong! Jesus turned water into grape juice).

It stands to reason that a lot of the hate I’ve garnered causing people to protest against Str8Cam Jeff Opens new window of a page on this blog and others steams from a misunderstanding of my most controversial posts about stealthing.

I know a lot of my readers think stealthing is hot, hot, hot. You jerk off to it. It’s the forbidden fruit. All of us have fantasies we all enjoy, just beyond the borders of what we’d really do.

Then again, it might be something we do.

In the barebacking world, there’s bug-chasing and gift-giving along with a Russian roulette of who-the-fuck-cares breeds us.

But I am known for stealthing, for giving the world the top 10 tips for stealthing Opens new window of a page on this blog, for explaining barebacking in meaningful ways that there’s no denying what’s really happening.

I have been deceptive. And that’s not explaining all my motivations.

The Entire Truth

Whenever I watch a magician — even someone like Lance Burton or David Copperfield — it’s become second nature for me to figure out how the trick is done. It’s not really hard to do. I can’t stand to watch “America’s Got Talent” and to see Howie Mandel be amazed at a relatively simple trick and to say, “I don’t know how you did that!”

I can tell you.

When I began the entries on busting condoms, taking condoms off and other forms of sabotage, the outrage was palpable. Most hated it. Many thought I’d broken some sacred contract.

How, I have no idea. Anonymous sex is just that. Why they have this higher-than-mighty sense one must adhere to a code when fucking someone who you don’t even know their first name, I don’t comprehend. Why? And especially why when one knows the other person isn’t put into any harm.

The mighty think that the stealther has some puss-filled cock shooting out disease upon infection and reigning some destruction upon the other.

Nonetheless, until I started writing about it, no one was.

I don’t count myself as some savior. I don’t. But I do see some of what I wrote as an education.

I do explain if you’re stupid enough to want to fuck in places where you’re not going to know your top or bottom, how one might protect oneself. How to bring your own condoms, monitor the use of the condoms and maintain your own safety.

You are accountable for your own safety. No one else.

Welcome to Real Life

It’s so very odd how some consider this bond of sex sacred even though you’re fucking with a stranger. For example, if a journalist is speaking to a source and the source wants to go “off the record” — meaning the content to follow is not to be published or broadcast — the journalist must agree to do so verbally as well. It must be stated so and both parties have to make an agreement.

Pulling out a condom just with the assumption someone will wear it doesn’t work that way.

I’m not saying this stuff just to piss people off. I’m trying to get reality to sink in. This is how the world works. Assuming an asshole top who wants to get off raw or a bottom who wants a load is going to fuck according to some honor code is just plain stupid.

 

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Feedback on the Grindr Hate Message for the 23-Year-Old Openly POZ Barebacker

Overtake Hate of Barebackers and POZ
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Recently I posted a screenshot from Grindr sent to an openly POZ barebacker who happened to be online in Pittsburgh recently. The young man, who asked me not to use his name or photo, sent me the screenshot. He’d been floored.

Since turning HIV-positive a few years prior, he’d been honest with everyone online about his status as well as his preference to bareback. The result hadn’t been as much acceptance as there had been scorn, like this example.

I’d asked iBLASTinside readers to respond and some of you did. I wish a few more would, but here’s what I’ve received so far…

          

Those Who Protest Too Much

Andre wrote on 28 June 2012:

I don’t see what the fuss is about barebacking … it’s a personal choice and more than likely the a-hole who text those messages in the image above probably barebacks as well, when push comes to shove … you know what they say about those who protest too much …

          

Kudos to Leather Pup

Mindtrip wrote on 28 June 2012:

And people wonder why guys are lead to lie about their status.

It’s not just rejection; it is this hatred and disdain that leads to fear.

Kudos to this leather pup for his honesty to himself and to others.

          

Report and Block his Punk Ass

SeaGuy wrote on 29 June 2012: 

People who send messages like the one above to someone they do not know, attacking that person for the lifestyle they lead, are usually pathetic individuals who hate themselves for partaking in the particular lifestyle choice they are so against.

They also tend to not have anything else going on in their life. I don’t know of anyone in my life who has a hobby attacking strangers for barebacking. I would just report that pathetic hater for hate speech to Grindr then block his punk ass. He’s so pathetic it’s not worth your time to dwell on it.

          

Meet this Shit with Payback

HungLatinDom posted on 28 June 2012:

You should post the Grindr profile of the guy too. This kind of shit must be met with a payback. That kind of hate cannot be let unbound and with no response.

I pity the jerk, in any case. This kind of person hates us because we spoil their perfect life; if it would not be because filthy fags like us, he could have plenty of bareback sex. He wants it, he can’t have it, we are to blame. WHEN (not if) he gets poz, it’s gonna be ugly. I have seen it before, but it’s fair payback. All that hate is in their minds, nobody else is to blame.

When I seroconverted, I took it rather well. I made my life better in some aspects and realize some things. I never discriminated against poz gays, I was in peace with myself. Haters like him don’t have that advantage and they realize they turned into something they hate violently.

A Note from Mark

When I received the screenshot, I asked for the guy’s photo if the young pup had it. Like most chicken shits, he’d never uploaded a photo and, as you see in the image, never chosen a name for himself. Believe me, if I’d had any further information, I’d gladly have published it.  

          

Payback Is Not Cool

GermanFucker wrote on 28 June 2012: 

Someone who is open about his barebacking habits and his serostatus deserves all the respect and praise in the world, just like those who lie and mislead in order to infect deserve the scorn of the community. If you are open about barebacking and HIV everybody else can make his own decisions and will eventually realize that there are a lot of poz people out there and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with them. (And that if you want to be on the safe side, you can use a condom.)

However I find language like, “This kind of shit must be met with a payback,” dangerous and frightening.

Dude is a moron and a hater. He deserves to be ridiculed, made fun off and exposed for the douche he is. More than that he should be educated. What would not be ok is if someone went out and tried to poz the guy. There are limits. Calling it “payback” is a bit too much of a blank cheque. Not cool.

          

Karma Will Get Him

gd wrote on 28 June 2012 

This kid is probably going to get what he deserves. He is going to piss off a guy he shouldn’t about barebacking and he is going to get it. It’s that-asshole-better-than-thou attitude that guys hate. It’s one thing to disagree but another to hate and be so forceful about your view and so cryptic and dangerous.

I’ll admit it I am not really that much of a barebacker. I want to do it more but I am nervous and afraid. It’s sort of on hold right now. However sometimes I get messages from poz or undectable tops even though it’s in my profile I am not into that.

I don’t tell them to go die in a hole or go to AIDS country or anything like that. I tell them how flattered I am but I would rather try to play with neg guys (even though guys lie).

Some of them are okay but some get pissed. Some guys have called me a stupid naïve asshole for thinking that it’s okay to bareback with neg guys because all guys are poz and I am going to get pozzed anyways so I might as well do it with him. How romantic.

Everyone has their own view of barebacking.

Some guys don’t care about status and do it with anyone. Some guys are cum dumps. Some care about the status, and some are afraid to bareback.

I have nothing against poz guys or undetectable guys. Some I have talked to seem so nice and knowledgeable that I feel I am at fault for turning them down sometimes. But I don’t want to be poz. It might happen one day but I am really young and I want to stay neg for as long as I can. Safest way to do that right now is limit going raw tremendously. I really wanted to go to that CumUnion thing though but that would be dangerous.

I actually respect tops and bottoms both who, with their heart and mind, decide that they want to bareback and are not ashamed or afraid of it and don’t give a damn what others’ think. It’s their choice, their right, and their life and they don’t pussyfoot about it or make excuses.

But guys like this asshole on Grindr? He’ll say the same thing about an older guy or a guy he considers ugly.

Karma will get him.

          

I Enjoy Raw Sex Too Much to Wait for Love

Pete wrote on 28 June 2012:

I’m a recent convert to the (openly) bareback camp (with much thanks to this website for the encouragement to do it).

While I won’t be telling friends and family I’m doing it (that would just bring on worry I don’t think is necessary), I will be openly asking people I meet online if they will bareback (and if they are negative, although not asking hasn’t stopped me in the past). I’m just going to use my smarts to see if I think the person is being honest with me. I’m a pretty good judge of character.

As for the feeling guilty or having people possibly hate me for not understanding why I won’t practice safe sex, I made myself think about why I was doing it and came up with this as my excuse if I’m ever asked: If society will only possibly accept sex without a condom within a monogamous relationship, then I’m not willing to wait until I find someone to do that with.

I enjoy raw sex too much to wait for a love that may not come. Love is fleeting and hard to seek; sex is easy and fun, if done with the right partner(s).

You’re only hurting yourself if you believe you are. Yes, there are people out there who won’t ever be honest and try to stealth and make others poz; while I don’t agree with that, I do find the stories that involve on this site incredibly hot (so I can’t really judge). It’s totally the taboo nature of subverting the person who doesn’t want to “give in” and making it happen regardless. It’s bold & selfish, but incredibly intoxicating.

Life is worth living when you can just be yourself. Thanks to the commenters on this site for making me feel proud for doing it.

          

Doing What Cums Naturally

Versatile RAW Piggy Bottom wrote on 29 June 2012: 

It is a shame that the person contacted you and showed how much hate he has for people who are honest in what they like and want. Most likely he is hating his own life and has to spread that hate onto others — and especially to those doing what he desires to do. Have sex naturally….bareback.

Much Love & Support!

          

Disgusting

Jonas wrote on 29 June 2012:

That’s disgusting. I mean this guy clearly did nothing wrong, so he should never get messages like that.

I hate shortsighted people.

          

 

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I’m Curious About You

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It’s been a while since I asked you, dear reader, a few questions. So I thought I’d do a little catching up with a few questions. Please take the time to answer. I’d truly appreciate it.

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P.S. If you are reading this somewhere else other than iBLASTinside.com, please visit http://iBLASTinside.com/2012/06/curious-poll/ to complete all the questions. I know a lot of places take my RSS feed, which is cool. But I’d really like to get a better understanding of who you happened to be.

What Interests You

What entries on iBLASTinside do you LIKE? (Select up to three)

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What entries on iBLASTinside do you DISLIKE? (Select up to three)

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Among the fuck stories, which topics do you find the HOTTEST? (Select just one)

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  • Young (Fucking 20s, legal teens) (15%, 142 Votes)
  • Gloryhole/Anonymous Sex (15%, 141 Votes)
  • Travel Diary Hook-Ups (14%, 134 Votes)
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About Your Sexual Habits

Do you bareback?

  • I always bareback (anyone & everyone) (29%, 319 Votes)
  • I mostly bareback (use a condom if he wants it) (23%, 255 Votes)
  • I sometimes bareback (just depends on the vibe) (15%, 168 Votes)
  • I only bareback with my partner/boyfriend (15%, 165 Votes)
  • I never bareback (but the stories are hot) (8%, 83 Votes)
  • I rarely bareback (it's only when I'm really horny) (5%, 53 Votes)
  • I bareback if I top, wrap it if I bottom (3%, 31 Votes)
  • I'll bareback if he shows me recent test results (2%, 21 Votes)
  • I hate barebacking (0%, 2 Votes)

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Where do you fit?

  • Gay Male (83%, 859 Votes)
  • Bisexual Male (12%, 128 Votes)
  • Curious/Questioning Male (2%, 23 Votes)
  • Straight Male (1%, 12 Votes)
  • Male (Other Category) (0%, 4 Votes)
  • Male-to-Female Transgender (0%, 3 Votes)
  • Female (0%, 2 Votes)
  • Female-to-Male Transgender (2%, 2 Votes)

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Do you take loads? (Select up to three answers)

  • I love taking loads in my ass all the time (39%, 390 Votes)
  • I take loads in my ass sometimes (24%, 237 Votes)
  • I love sucking and swallowing (19%, 191 Votes)
  • I keep cum inside my ass as long as possible (19%, 188 Votes)
  • I'm a top so I'm not taking any loads (11%, 106 Votes)
  • I empty my ass of cum after the fuck (5%, 50 Votes)
  • I don't bareback at all (5%, 47 Votes)
  • Fuck me bareback but cum on my back (4%, 39 Votes)
  • Fuck me bareback but cum in my mouth (3%, 33 Votes)
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How do you give loads? (Select only one)

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What's your status?

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What's your position?

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  • Total Bottom (22%, 230 Votes)
  • Versatile But Lean Bottom (17%, 174 Votes)
  • Mostly Top (10%, 105 Votes)
  • 50-50 Switch (10%, 104 Votes)
  • Versatile But Lean Top (8%, 82 Votes)
  • Total Top (8%, 81 Votes)
  • Virgin (2%, 21 Votes)

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How old are you?

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What "type" and ethnicity would you categorize yourself? (Choose up to three)

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  • Bear (12%, 110 Votes)
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  • Chub (8%, 71 Votes)
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  • Twink (5%, 44 Votes)
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  • Dominant (4%, 38 Votes)
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  • Femme (1%, 12 Votes)
  • Redneck (1%, 11 Votes)
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  • Arab/Arab-American (1%, 9 Votes)
  • Pocket (1%, 6 Votes)
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Miscellaneous

Are you a member of the Bareback Brotherhood (#BBBH)?

  • No (75%, 623 Votes)
  • Yes (25%, 207 Votes)

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If you could, would you get fucked by Mark Bentson?

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  • Maybe. (17%, 154 Votes)
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Swinging Richards, An Atlanta Institution

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Swinging Richards

1400 Northside Drive
Atlanta, GA 30318
@RichardsATL on Twitter

Swinging Richards also offers a Miami location at
17450 Biscayne Boulevard
North Miami, FL 33160
@RichardsFLA on Twitter

This review is of the Atlanta location and was updated in June since my last visit in May 2012. I’ll have to swing by the Florida location soon…

Swinging Richards: Where The Men Are Straight, The Drinks Are Stiff & The Bodies Are Hot, Hot, Hot!

I am told few stripper bars compare to Swinging Richards — at least between Miami and the Canadian border. Canada has a few stripper clubs considered better than Swinging Richards. I’ve not visited. I wouldn’t know. But I’ve talked to the dancers, who come from far and wide to work at this Atlanta institution. Arizona, Costa Rica, Florida, New Jersey and other states, territories you will find interesting.

Inside the door and after you pay your cover, the ample stage will offer some of the best beef available. While women will pass into the door, Swinging Richards is a Gay bar and it makes no bones about it.

Swinging Richards in AtlantaRecently I witnessed a group of women having a fit outside the bar because their money was being refused, as Swinging Richards plainly posts on its website at its entrance — no bachelorette or bachelor parties. To add insult to injury, one of the beefy dancers passed by as the head bitch asked if indeed the rumor was true that a majority of the dancers were straight.

He answered yes.

She asked whether he would prefer to dance for her and her pretty friends or “those fags over there,” as she pointed at a duo of average looking guys having a drink.

“Oh, I’d much rather dance for the guys,” the dancer replied, as the bitch’s jaw hit the floor. “Girls never tip well. Guys always take care of me.”

The two “fags” handed him a twenty and left with the straight dancer for a lap dance. The girls left the bar.

I love Swinging Richards.

Yes, many dancers are straight, bi, curious or heteroflexible. In fact, you’ll find so few Gay dancers here that it’s impossible. However, you won’t give a fuck. This bar isn’t a place for anything other than to get up close and personal with a fantasy. Many of the men here learn how to provide that fantasy — for a price.

The men are hot, hot and hot (and having traveled around of recent and visited several places, I can testify these men are hotter than any so-called “go-go” dancers at other clubs).

The men take good care of themselves (although far too many of them smoke). You will find all shapes, sizes (for a while, a nicely muscular little person worked here), ethnicities and cock sizes. Generally, the men start around 21 years old and go as old as late 30s. Many men are muscular from very beefy to rather tight and toned.

What I notice is each man tries to offer a “hook.” There’s something about them that pulls the customers in. If they don’t have a hook, they create one.

One guy, who isn’t from Russia, looks like he could be Russian. His stage name is “Dmitri.” Then there’s surfer dude “Collin” with his shaggy blond hair and his massive cock — two big draws. Baseball guy and his outfit is great but it’s his ass for days that always draws my attention (and I mean, this white boy has more junk in the trunk than I’ve ever seen).

Many of the men sport tattoos. Ink enhances the experience.

Cover on most nights is $10, although there’s no cover on Tuesday before midnight and Wednesday night is $5. Keep in mind that parking is always $3 but the lot is well lit and manned. Friday and Saturday nights are the obvious choice for the best nights when the most men are working. The place is generally well ventilated.

For a while, Wednesday offered smoke-free nights, for those of us wanting a little less fog and stench but it didn’t work out and they’re back to allowing smoking.

If you’re around Tuesday early, you might get a glimpse of the newest men on trial to see if they can make it to be a Swinging Richards dancer. Tuesday is also considered a difficult night to work since the cover is discounted.

The main room features a nice stage down the middle with two bars — one to the right as you enter and one at the very back. The drinks are expensive but generous. And what goes for top shelf other places is well here (for example, Smirnoff is the well vodka).

The bartenders and bar-backs can be equally hot as the dancers. If you’re lucky, head toward the back bar and look for the extremely hot Juan to serve you up a drink and tip him extra well. If you hang out long enough, his shirt comes off. It’s very worth the wait (and the tip). Of the men serving cocktails, look for Jonathan, an absolutely adorable Asian. Watching his ass in his tight jeans is almost as fun as watching many of the dancers.

The stage will support six dancers but depending on the number of dancers on shift and the crowd, as few as two might be on stage.

Dancers perform three songs. The first in their “outfit of choice.” Each dancer gives off a vibe. I mentioned the baseball guy. He and his beautiful ass comes in baseball gear constantly — even with black grease paint under his eyes. Another does the soccer get up. A New Jersey homeboy styles his beanie. And oddly enough, one Latin from Florida does boot-scooting stomping in leather cowboy boots and jeans. Others offer up normal, everyday clothing. Usually they’re all without shirts.

Upon the second song, the dancers shift positions and will remove their pants. Health code requires shoes at all times. Underwear choices tend to be fun to watch — from jocks to Diesel to Underoos to boxers.

The third song shifts dancers another position and, for bigger dicked boys and those with confidence in their bodies, the underwear comes off. If the dancers seem shy, they’re not. They’re waiting for more money.

At any point during the three songs, bring a dollar to the stage. Each dancer wears one or two armbands. Fold and tuck the dollar into the armband. Generally, the more money made the first two songs, the more likely a dancer will get naked on the third. Additionally, bringing money to them will give you a glimpse.

Going to see dancers multiple times during a set does wonders. If the dancer isn’t too stuck on themselves (and some are, as you might imagine) the dancer will notice you more. If it’s not too crowded on the main floor following the set, dancers usually hit the locker room to drop off their cash and then to come out and “thank” their tipping customers. You might be asked if you’d like a lap dance.

If you’re male, please consider going to the VIP Room for the lap dance.

The VIP Room isn’t the “champagne” room in straight bars. This is an area just outside the private rooms where dancers “hang out.” Women are not allowed here. Male customers pay $10 extra cover to come back here.

A lap dance on the main floor means hands at your side.

A lap dance in the VIP Room means you get to explore a little. You’re supposed to keep it above the waist, but we all know how guys are.

FYI, a lap dance is $20. It lasts a full song. Be careful if you engage a dancer. The less scrupulous will continue dancing and won’t alert you to the fact that you’re racking up $20 per song. After 10 minutes, you’ll owe $80.

That’s right. You’ll notice your favorite songs are a little shorter here. Songs run 2½ to 3 minutes.

The dancer will get completely naked. Don’t hesitate to ask for what you want. For example, you want to rub his chest and arms, go for it. But if you want to explore a little lower, you are supposed to do that in the VIP Room. Not allowed out front.

The back bar opens up to the VIP Room as well, so getting drinks here isn’t a problem. If you’re like me and stick with one bartender when you enter a club, you’ll want to work with a bartender from the back bar if you plan on visiting the VIP Room, which is a definite recommendation. On busier nights, cocktail waiters work. While the waiters have stations outside, they can serve you in the VIP Room as well.

The terrific part of the VIP Room is dancers do hang out here. Yes, you are hit up for lap and private dances. The good dancers will engage in a conversation first.

A vast majority of the people who work at Swinging Richards are very friendly. That said, some dancers can project attitude. There’s the one I call “Captain America.” He’s blond, muscular and a mega asshole — or at least that’s how he seems toward me. There’s another swarthy dancer who works the VIP Room with a tremendous body but will cheat you out of every dance he can get from you; he’ll start mid-song but charge you for the whole song. That’s the thing: These men do work for your money. But they also have their own taste and objectives. Captain America always seems to go after older men for short bursts and big payouts. Swarthy dancer just wants to use them then lose them.

Dancers will not kiss or get too intimate in the VIP Room. They will tease and imply a great deal prior to entering into the “private dance” spaces — these are cubbies without doors just off the VIP Room.

Private dances work like this. You pay a certain amount to the “house” (meaning Swinging Richards) and a certain amount to the dancer. Standard fees follow:

  • 15 minutes: $40 to the house, $100 to the dancer
  • 30 minutes: $65 to the house, $200 to the dancer
  • 60 minutes: $125 to the house, $400 to the dancer (comes with a bottle of champagne)

On many nights, especially if its slow, you’ll hear about “Two-for-One” VIP rooms. This applies only to the house charge. Therefore, you can get a 30-minute room for $40 or a 60-minute room for $65 (without the champagne). The dancer is full price. You’re not necessarily getting a bargain.

And the dancer also expects a tip beyond the fee.

Prior to going into the room, you need to determine what will happen and what the dancer will and will not do. Remember that you are purchasing private time with the dancer and that neither Swinging Richards nor the dancer offers sex in exchange for money.

For a bunch of bi, straight and curious guys, exactly what’s going to happen can be very strange.

  • Generally, fucking never happens — even for the rare girl who pays for private time. Dancers will not fuck on premises.
  • Many dancers struggle to get hard, even with pharmaceutical assistance. Be understanding and you’ll have a better experience.
  • Kissing varies from dancer to dancers. Several will not and it’s not negotiable. Some will.
  • Generally, dancers will allow you to suck their cocks, especially if you’ve paid for 30 minutes. Many of them prefer that’s what happens.
  • You may be able to service other parts of their body, like lick nipples, ass, ears, feet, balls, pits, pecs, etc. But ask first. Some have particular issues, especially with any ass play.
  • “Pop offs” or getting a dancer to shoot a load is possible, but only for 30 minutes or more (and promised a tip). If horny enough, dancers might jerk off their own cocks for you. If you suck well enough, dancers might shoot a load (even let you swallow).
  • Some dancers will touch your cock through your pants, even grind up against you.
  • Unless you pay for 30 minutes or more, your cock will never come out of your pants (and even then it’s unlikely). Again, discuss this with your dancer. Almost all dancers do not jerk you off (much less suck).
  • All this said, dancers are there to make sure you have a good time and they’ll let you know what’s going to happen. Be direct and honest.

For all that goes on here, Swinging Richards is not a sleazy destination really. It’s quite clean and upstanding. However, if you really want to feel fucked, understand when you leave, you will. You will be royally screwed in the wallet. You can have a good time here for $100 or a really good time here for $1,000.

I’ve been here enough (I don’t go often) to know what to expect. It’s my fantasy to walk in the door here with a few thousand to burn one night. I might still do it. Eventually.

In the meantime, don’t miss Swinging Richards.

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Dark Passenger: A Funeral I Did Not Attend

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I did not go to a funeral this weekend.

My molester finally kicked the bucket and finds himself in descent to hell or whatever suffering in afterlife the asshole deserves. Truth is, I’m not sure I believe in much of an afterlife anymore. But nonetheless, he’s gone.

The funeral was yesterday and family friends attempted to pressure both me and my sister to attend.

Now you must realize most people do not know what this man did to us — more especially, what he did to me,

Today I was speaking with a friend who said he was “floored” by what my sister told him about this wonderful outstanding citizen of the community. My sister refused to attend the funeral because of inappropriate touching of her. This came from the friend as to scold me for not attending the funeral, not in an understanding way.

I then went ahead and gave a brief overview of my abuse. At first, there was disbelief, but I think the margarine incident clinched it.

He broke down into tears and asked me to stop talking. And I was forgiven for not attending the funeral.

But tell me why I cannot sleep tonight. Tell me why it is on my mind?

 

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