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Grindin’ Ass Raw: How Quickly ‘Safer’ Bottoms Go Raw

Grindin’ Ass Raw: How Quickly ‘Safer’ Bottoms Go Raw

Raw-or-wrapped-2How much I love asking the question, “Raw or wrapped?’

If I’m on Grindr or Scruff or Manhunt (I’ve got a free trial) or Craigslist, it’s a question that’s bound to come up. And ever-so-quickly, as soon as it does, the response about half the time is “wrapped” or “safe.”

Fuck, just look at the young man to the right — he wrote “Always safe.”

And I wrote, “Oh. Too bad. I’m not.”

Immediately — not even a minute passed — before he said he’d fuck raw.

Recently, a survey found about half of all gay men said they fucked bareback while the other half said they fucked safe. This is a flawed study because, I believe, when confronted with someone a bottom want to fuck him, he’ll go raw almost every time.

Believe me, I get more ass this way.

A lot of you may think I’m out there stealthing ass Opens new window of a page on this blog left and right. No. I’m not. I only do that at sex clubs, adult bookstores or bathhouses where anonymous hook-ups are rampant and, even then, it’s rare.

Most everywhere else, the horny man will go raw without hesitation.

The Tanned, Tattooed Lasian

I’m downtown running errands and, whenever that happens, I see that as an opportunity to get some. Honestly, Grindr and Scruff are hit and miss. Plus it’s a Wednesday in Atlanta Opens new window of a page on this blog and I know that’s a craptastic day.

But the common chime goes off on the ole iPhone and I begin chatting it up with what looks to be a light-skinned Latino.

If you’ve been reading my blog, you know I have a thing about exotics — any Asian or Latin flavor. Well, we all also know I’m an equal opportunity fucker Opens new window of a page on this blog, glad to breed most any ass.

The 27-year-old had shitty photos, but it didn’t much matter to me. He’d turned off his distance meter but seemed pretty damn close. And we were getting along. He liked my cock shots. He asked me to come over to fuck him.

Raw-or-wrapped“Raw or wrapped?” I asked.

“Wrapped.”

I turned him down, letting him know I just fucked raw.

Now I expect bottoms to come back with an invitation anyway, but his response shocked even me.

“Okay, well, you can fuck me raw as long as you cum in me,” he typed.

“I have no problem breeding your ass,” I wrote back.

Soon I had an address and was on my way.

Turned out I was only 3 minutes away from his apartment complex. He answered the door with just a towel.

A 6-feet tall, this beefy man’s wide, smooth chest looked just meaty and delicious. He was deeply tanned. And those horrible photos just couldn’t make up for the vision before me. Tattoos scattered his body. In fact, throughout our session, every move would cause me to discover a new tattoo — he had at least a dozen. Some as small as a dime while others were much larger.

His nipples pointed down toward his belly.

He escorted me to the bedroom and dropped his towel while I began taking off my clothes. His large flat nose gave him a Hawaiian look but the Asian truly stood out. That is, as he jacked his uncut cock and it stood up a rigid 8 inches and very wide.

Now that wasn’t Asian cock. It was truly Latin.

We went down to business, him snorting my poppers Opens new window of a page on this blog, sucking my cock, kissing me with his luscious thick lips and begging very soon for me to eat his ass and fuck him.

His legs and ass were covered with dark, wiry hair (again, symptoms of Latin descent). I worked his hole just a little before he wanted my rock hard cock inside him. His padded tanned skin next to my mighty white seemed like an odd dichotomy, but it worked as my cock slipped inside and he snorted more on those poppers.

With him on his back, my cock thrusting inside him, he soon began begging for my nut.

“You want it already?” I said, knowing we’d only been fucking a few minutes. But I was on errands and didn’t have long. But I didn’t mind making this a quick one. As fast as he was jerking his cock, I knew I wouldn’t have long anyway.

“Breed me man,” he said.

I snorted the poppers now and went plunging over the edge.

I bred his ass, pushing my cum inside him and letting him know he’d gotten my load. Then I pulled out and dressed.

“Damn,” he said. “Thanks. I’ve been looking all day for someone to come over and fuck me. You were the first one serious enough to do it.”

“Glad to help out,” I said.

And I left.

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2013 Load Count Races

2013 Load Count Races

Barebackers love to count our loads. How many we take or give anally. How many we give or take orally. It’s a matter of pride. A way of maintaining a personal best, improving ourselves, a matter of pride.

I think 2013 should see something a little different. I think we should all compete against each other just a little bit. Of course, with self reporting, we could fudge the numbers. But I’m hoping we can prevent some of that.

What do you guys think about that? (There’s a survey Scroll Down below to get your feedback.)

In the meantime, I just asked the question on Twitter and here’s the responses I got…

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Survey

Please answer the following two questions. The survey will end on March 11, 2013 at midnight.

Should iBLASTinside create a "2013 Load Count Race" with a "prize" at the end of the year?

  • YES, I'd love to participate. (44%, 35 Votes)
  • YES, I might participate (22%, 17 Votes)
  • YES, I would keep up (22%, 17 Votes)
  • MAYBE, it could be interesting (8%, 6 Votes)
  • NO, it would be a waste of time (5%, 4 Votes)

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If iBLASTinside created a "Load Count Race," I'd likely participate as a...

  • Bottom (58%, 46 Votes)
  • Versatile (19%, 15 Votes)
  • Top (14%, 11 Votes)
  • I wouldn't participate (10%, 8 Votes)

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Cleaning Up After the Death of Erik Rhodes

Cleaning Up After the Death of Erik Rhodes

“Whatever sells tickets to the circus.”

—Erik Rhodes, June 11, 2012
from his Tumblr blog

          

I love porn. I do. Porn is the bomb. Any one out there who says porn is bad needs to get his (or her) head examined. In a way, I’m in the porn business, although I don’t really make money since I write some really nasty stuff and people jerk off to the words (and borrowed photos) here on this blog.

A huge chunk of the porn industry has a problem and it’s been exposed by the death of Erik Rhodes. Rhodes, a 30-year-old Falcon Studios exclusive, died early June 14 of an apparent heart attack. Rhodes wrote often of his extensive drug use including crystal meth, GHB, human growth hormone, prescriptions, steroids and recently outlawed “bath salts,” among others. Rhodes, who’s real name was James Elliott Naughtin, was cremated on Monday.

Right now, a concerted effort to clean the scene as a huge chunk of porn consumers, producers, actors, companies and media outlets attempt to ignore what killed this gorgeous man. Each knew it, enabled it, ignored it or implicitly encouraged it.

Try to say anything else and you’re just lying to yourselves.

If you check Twitter (as of today), people are still just discovering the Friday death of Erik Rhodes. GayPornGossip.com Link Opens in a New Window, a website with the word “gossip” in the name, is completely ignoring his drug use. Some tweets demonize any coverage that dares mention the drug use or suggests that the drugs contributed to his death, despite his last blog entry speaking of starting a cycle of steroids and recent tweets discussing taking several barbiturates in order to sleep including Ambien, Klonopin and nine over-the-counter pills.

Erik’s Tumblr blog and Twitter accounts were deleted Monday (although cached versions remain available if you know how to reach them; remember folks, nothing is ever really deleted off the web).

This reminds me of the heroine chic that dominated the fashion world for a while. The impossible muscularity and party mentality that the gay world expected from this man proved impossible for him.

And I continue to think it’s just hypocritical to embrace drug use and reject barebacking. When I wrote my original post,  I expected more than two of thousands of people who read my blog every day to respond. Agree. Disagree. Argue. But I guess not. I guess the clean-up job will again sweep away the truth.


Update 4: Postscript on My Posts About the Death of Erik Rhodes (June 20, 2012) 

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Hey Derek, You’re in the Gay Mafia, Bitch!

Hey Derek, You’re in the Gay Mafia, Bitch!

The Original Post on the Death of Porn Star Erik Rhodes (June 14, 2012)
Derek Hartley Responds (June 16, 2012)

Cool! Be a Steroid-Shooting, Tina-Snorting Musclebound Porn Star! Just Wear a Condom!

Okay, now that’s one of the bitchiest headlines I’ve ever written. But I’m trying to get through to Derek Hartley and his ilk.

If you’re missing how all this started, go back a few days to my entry on the loss of musclebound god and Falcon-exclusive porn star Erik Rhodes. Derek responded as well.

I’ve listened to Sirius XM’s OutQ station and the “Derek and Romaine” show, where Derek Hartley broadcasts. As with some of our so-called “gay celebrities,” you get a little fame in the community and, well, what happens to you but you become a little less rooted in where the rest of us live.

He hangs out with porn stars and musclebound men. And he loves, loves, loves to dispense advice on his bully platform of a radio show. Derek is friends with FabScout Howard Follow on Twitter, an outspoken condom Nazi and part of porn “model” company FabScout Entertainment Link Opens in a New Window, which refuses to represent anyone who chooses to bareback. FabScout was part of the switch of Marc Dylan over to condom-only porn (among some others).

FabScout, Derek, Falcon and the rest of the Gay Mafia sit in judgment. They love their placement on these thrones where, in this façade they show, they pretend to be outraged at barebacking. They preach against it. It is wrong, destructive, horrendous, etc.

But they accept all the other horrors of the gay lifestyle: Excessive drinking, steroids, drug use, partying, smoking cigarettes, etc. These abuses and killers — which far exceed anything barebacking has ever done — somehow remain acceptable to them.

How a blind eye keeps getting turned to this baffles me. How these people sit in judgment of one choice bothers me. When smoking contributes to the top six of eight killers in the world, when drug use and other over indulgences can destroy lives and unbalance people (like Erik Rhodes), it seems all right to porn studios, model representatives and the Gay Mafia.

Take FabScout. Upfront on its website Link Opens in a New Window is its policy on safe sex (should be “safer sex”). Why not a policy on drug use? It’s okay for your models to use steroids? It’s okay for your models to get high on crystal meth, PCP, bath salts? Seems to me, if you want to protect your “investment” in your models, why don’t you protect them by assuring they’re all healthy and drug free.

Barebacking is a choice, just like everything else here. If you’re going to allow people the right to choose other behaviors, why not barebacking? Is it because these men are attractive and musclebound and beautiful that you can somehow overlook these behaviors?

Still seems so hypocritical.


Update 3: Cleaning Up After the Death of a Porn Star (June 19, 2012)
Update 4: Postscript on My Posts About the Death of Erik Rhodes (June 20, 2012) 

        

P.S.

Gawker has published one of the most comprehensive explorations of the life and death of Erik Rhodes (real name James Elliott Naughtin). Check it out Link Opens in a New Window.

Derek Hartley Responds Regarding My Post on Erik Rhodes Death…

Derek Hartley Responds Regarding My Post on Erik Rhodes Death…

[alert style=”green”]I believe the comment system on this blog sometimes doesn’t give people the appropriate emphasis. Therefore, I decided to add a separate entry. This is in response to my entry, “The Mourning of a Porn Superstar and the Question of Hypocrisy for Falcon Studios, Derek Hartley and the Rest of You Anti-Barebackers” from June 14, 2012. Sirius XM Radio Personality Derek Hartley responded June 16, 2012. His blog is available at DerekHartley.com Link Opens in a New Window. You can also follow him on Twitter Follow on Twitter.[/alert]

Derek Hartley Writes:

Since you cited me, I feel obligated to respond.

You make a lot of assumptions about me and what I judge and don’t judge and I think you missed the essential point of what I was conveying about my friend.

I know that you want this to be about bareback vs. condom but that never entered my line of thinking in what I wrote or how I thought of my friend. His aggressively destructive ways were not okay with those of us who knew him best and many of us worked hard to help him pull his life together. His drug use was a serious problem. It left him erratic and unreliable.

He did lose friends and boyfriends over it. But ultimately there was nothing any of us could do to alter his course or assuage the profound sadness that haunted him that no amount of love, drugs, sex, fast food or heavy lifting could conquer.

Ultimately, I don’t see anything in your central thesis here that connects to my friend.

He was a paid exclusive to Falcon so yes, if he did scenes for someone else (condoms or bareback), they would have had a problem with that as a breach of contract. I don’t think it would have made his private behavior any easier or harder to take if he made different films.

Those of us who knew him knew him as a person, not just as someone who fucked on camera. That kind of thinking, by those who only saw him as a piece of meat, contributed to his downfall more than the unwillingness of his friends to intervene. What you write suggests that how we all felt about him hinged on the kind of porn he did, and to that I must respectfully but vehemently disagree.


Update 2: My Post About Derek Hartley & the Gay Mafia (June 18, 2012)
Update 3: Cleaning Up After the Death of a Porn Star (June 19, 2012)
Update 4: Postscript on My Posts About the Death of Erik Rhodes (June 20, 2012)