A ‘Top’ Asks for Advice
Hey there Mark,
Sorry to bother you, sir.
I’ve been friends with this boy since we were kids and we are both gay. Well I’m gay and he is bi, he says, I think he is just addicted to sex. We fool around and stuff but I want more.
I always take him out to eat because he can’t pay rent. I always buy him clothes for job interviews even though he can’t hold a job. He is too young and dumb, he flunks out at school.
When we go to bars, guys lie to him all the time and he believes them and fights with me even though I feel like I am the only one protecting him.
(When we were 16, a group of forthysomething guys online invited him to a conversion party with him as the “guest of honor. He was going to go until I Googled what “conversion party” meant, then he didn’t go. That’s how dumb he is.)
I am annoyed because I feel like he owes me his pussy. I feel like I have put in the effort and I want what’s mine but he won’t bottom for me sober and he INSISTS on condoms.
Just typing that makes me mad.
I hate condoms, but he knows that and thinks I’m a whore. He gets way more action then me and he always leaves the bar with a different, masculine top (I am surprised they all adhere to his no bareback rule).
I don’t mind sharing his hole at all. In fact, the more the better! I just want in it.
Anyway, you are a true inspiration and I am hoping you have some advice for me, anything helps!
Frustrated Top, Tony in Minnesota
Answer from Mark
Tops are never “owed” ass. Tops take ass.
Nut up. Why are you taking this pussy’s bullshit?
You’re not a top. You’re worse than a pussy-whipped straight guy.
This little fucker is getting it raw. He’s a little demanding, bossy bottom and he gets away with it because no one has the balls to put the fucker in his place.
He needs fucked and bred. But you’re not the man to do it.
It’s time you admitted the truth. You’re a fucking bottom. Oh, I know it hurts a little when the cock slides inside. But you’re all weepy and lovey-dovey over a piece of ass.
And you haven’t owned it.
You do not have the capability or the instinct to be a true, natural top. It’s time you gave it up and started training your ass to take it.
Fuck, if you were paying for all my shit, I’d play dumb, coy and forbid you from fucking me raw. It keeps you chasing after me.