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Q&A: The Truth About “Safe” Fuckers and Forbidden Pleasures of Bare

Q&A: The Truth About “Safe” Fuckers and Forbidden Pleasures of Bare

A note from Mark: I received this as a comment from a reader. I thought it deserved to be an entire post as I addressed it.

 

letter-qI am an exclusive bottom guy who loves bareback sex and loves cum. I tend to be upfront about it and what I want.

What I find from the tops (who want it “safe”) is essentially the same as the bottoms who want it “safe.” They never have condoms but insist on using them. Interesting when I start by proposing to use condoms, responses to my posts seeking a top is ridiculously high.

Then they never want to use condoms when we actually fuck.

On the converse, when I specifically advertise for BB only, I get far fewer responses. So what the fuck?

Do the tops who want stealth really just looking to get off on deceiving someone? I can play that game if that is what works for you guys. You seem to be turned off by the direct “I want your bare cock and cum in my ass.” But yet if I pretend I want a condom on your cock, then I can suddenly get all the bare cock I want. any thoughts?

 

letter-aThe answer is more simple than it seems.

“I’ve never done this before.”

“I’m a virgin”

“Just this one time.”

“Just put in the tip.”

Tops prefer bareback and I’d propose three out of four men fuck without condoms. Truth is, even when I get hit up, someone will say “safe only” to me only to learn I’ll only bareback. At some point, the horny bottom will decide he wants it too much and will ask me not to cum in his ass.

In the end, he’ll go home with a load in his ass.

The tops want the appearance that they’re fucking a virginal asshole without the risk of any sexually transmitted infections. You see, the condom Nazi lobby generated this impression that all that is bareback means it’s disease.

If you’re a bare-loving top who hasn’t faced the facts about the risks you’re taking, you think if you get a condom-preferred bottom who lets you in his ass raw will reduce your chance of getting something “bad.”

Of course, nothing could be further from the truth.

Barebackers tend to be in tune with their bodies. They know their statuses with any such stuff.

Other than chasers and gift-givers, true barebackers are among the safest to fuck. But many would much rather pretend.

It’s got nothing to do with stealthing. It has everything to do with deceiving oneself.

So post your ads for both raw and wrapped. Or don’t specify. And then given the choice, most will choose raw. If not, that’s when the stealthing fuck begins.

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Georgia Gay Cub Reporters Write Cute Newspaper Article About Me & Pal

link Georgia Boys Founders of Gay Men’s ‘Bareback Brotherhood’

 

So the above appeared in the GA Voice back in June 2013.  It’s the Gay rag for the Atlanta area. I’d say Georgia and I image a few people pick some up in Savannah and maybe Augusta (where these fine reporters probably haven’t noticed that two of three major Georgia hubs host huge bareback orgies once a month).

I’m glad that two of the three of the founders of the Bareback Brotherhood or #BBBH qualify as “boys.”

Fuck that.

I don’t know about @GaPozAthens, but last time I checked, I am a MAN.

Further, did you know you don’t have to be Gay to be in the Bareback Brotherhood?

That’s right. Ding ding ding!

You just have to be a guy to be a part of a brotherhood. Duh.

Bareback as a bi, as a straight or even just curious. Doesn’t matter.

Just fuck raw.

 

 

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What About the Youth of Today and Their Opinions on Bareback? FUCK EM!

What About the Children?

Every time some political football enters the arena — the national debt, gun control, Medicare, climate change, healthcare or whatever the issue happens to be — and one side runs out of arguments, there’s this moment when the pundit tilts his head to one side, gets this misty-eyed reflection and might even choke up a little. And then he or she says something about how this issue will ruin the lives of our children, the next generation, our children’s children or some crap like that.

It’s bullshit. But it’s a reflexive moment where everyone, whether you’ve got children or not, that our instinctual survival-of-the-species part of the monkey-brain kicks in and we collectively think something needs to be done.

Why do you think we all find babies and even the youngest of other species so adorably cute and cuddly? Puppies and kittens? Baby seals?

This is instinct telling us to take care and protect our young.

Now that I’ve explained it, let’s talk a little about the recent attacks on the Bareback Brotherhood Link Opens in a New Window, my fellow bareback bloggers, bareback hookup sites like BarebackRT.com Link Opens in a New Window, our family of pornographers and, more particularly, me.

The Sudden Focus of World AIDS Day

Over the past few years, I’ve come to expect it around December 1, World AIDS Day. Funny how one day prompts some assholes who ignore a class of people living with HIV and AIDS for a whole year but become indignant when they discover bareback sex and groups like the BBBH. One particular person who bugchased Link Opens in a New Window successfully and documented it received some particularly violent threats this year, including details on how they’d like to kill him.

It’s not technically irony (Alanis  Morissette ruined that for all of us), but the condom Nazis Link Opens in a New Window who want to wrap the world in plastic so no one dies of AIDS wants to kill someone for getting AIDS. Just weird.

Once I’d engage these hypocrites who ignore all the other ways our people are dying Opens a new window from this blog, who don’t give a shit that the Gay culture of steroid-muscled youth is built around smoke-filled bars serving alcohol with gun-toting drug dealers selling crystal meth (or “Tina”), ecstasy (or “Molly”), and cocaine.

Where’s your righteous indignation there?

But I don’t. I ignore the attacks nowadays. I delete the anonymous posts to my site wishing I would die or suggesting ways they would kill me. This very website fends off multiple cyber-attacks every second Opens a new window from this blog.

I refused to acknowledge or even link to the clever posts who have all of 200 followers on Twitter Link Opens in a New Window but figure out how to search for my brothers in cum and suggest others block them.

Twitter People to Block If You’re One of Those Self-Righteous, Plastic-Loving Pricks

I’ve been kind enough to compile the list myself. On Twitter alone, I’ve got six barebacker lists with confirmed men all over the world who love to fuck raw:
Blue Bullet One Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Two Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Three Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Four Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Five Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Six Link Opens in a New Window

I’ve listed all the Bareback Brotherhood members in four lists:
Blue Bullet One Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Two Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Three Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet 
Four Link Opens in a New Window

You’ll also want to check out my fellow co-founders of the BBBH to see their lists.
Blue Bullet @ch4suk Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet @gapozathens Link Opens in a New Window

That should cover all the so-called evil (but very enlightened and sexy) people online you need to block.

There’s even barebackers who somehow misinterpret the basics of the Bareback Brotherhood with strange, concocted vendettas out for me.

Hiding Behind ‘the Children’

Like some final bastion of refuge, the truth is arguing that safer sex is the only sex doesn’t work. The fear that came with AIDS/HIV of the 1980s and 1990s simply doesn’t work. HIV/AIDS is now defined by the medical community as a chronic condition Link Opens in a New Window, like “arthritis, asthma, cancer, COPD [and] diabetes.” It’s like living under the constant “orange” threat after 9/11.

The argument goes that we older folks are influencing younger people in their late teens and early twenties to accept bareback sex as normal and natural. Our “influence” is causing these youths to engage in so-called “unsafe” activity.

No, it’s causing them to act natural.

The most unnatural thing is to stick a piece of plastic on your cock in order to have an intimate act.

It’s not influenced by barebackers.

These assholes have the same kind of sense that we’re converting young men into barebackers the same way the homophobic think the Gays are converting youth into homosexuals.

It’s just ludicrous.

Talk to one. He will tell you about the love for the cum in his ass or dumping a load in a bare ass. It’s nothing to do with influence. It’s a natural appeal to do what comes naturally.

I’m Not Changing Anyone’s Mind

I know I’m not. I know I could never have a reasonable conversation with one of these jackoffs. I also know people who’ve been reading my site about stealthing Opens a new window from this blog and bugchasers Opens a new window from this blog and barebacking are misinterpreting the basics.

I can’t change a mind.

But what I do know is I appreciate the attention.

My readers are higher than ever, especially since some female porn slut thinks she’s got the upper hand on me and she can bareback all the guys she wants but men fucking raw is naughty, naughty.

Well, put me on Santa’s naughty list, take the saddle off the reindeer and let’s ride raw.

Fuck the children! I mean the LEGAL children of age, of course. No stocking for me.

 

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Hey Derek, You’re in the Gay Mafia, Bitch!

Hey Derek, You’re in the Gay Mafia, Bitch!

The Original Post on the Death of Porn Star Erik Rhodes (June 14, 2012)
Derek Hartley Responds (June 16, 2012)

Cool! Be a Steroid-Shooting, Tina-Snorting Musclebound Porn Star! Just Wear a Condom!

Okay, now that’s one of the bitchiest headlines I’ve ever written. But I’m trying to get through to Derek Hartley and his ilk.

If you’re missing how all this started, go back a few days to my entry on the loss of musclebound god and Falcon-exclusive porn star Erik Rhodes. Derek responded as well.

I’ve listened to Sirius XM’s OutQ station and the “Derek and Romaine” show, where Derek Hartley broadcasts. As with some of our so-called “gay celebrities,” you get a little fame in the community and, well, what happens to you but you become a little less rooted in where the rest of us live.

He hangs out with porn stars and musclebound men. And he loves, loves, loves to dispense advice on his bully platform of a radio show. Derek is friends with FabScout Howard Follow on Twitter, an outspoken condom Nazi and part of porn “model” company FabScout Entertainment Link Opens in a New Window, which refuses to represent anyone who chooses to bareback. FabScout was part of the switch of Marc Dylan over to condom-only porn (among some others).

FabScout, Derek, Falcon and the rest of the Gay Mafia sit in judgment. They love their placement on these thrones where, in this façade they show, they pretend to be outraged at barebacking. They preach against it. It is wrong, destructive, horrendous, etc.

But they accept all the other horrors of the gay lifestyle: Excessive drinking, steroids, drug use, partying, smoking cigarettes, etc. These abuses and killers — which far exceed anything barebacking has ever done — somehow remain acceptable to them.

How a blind eye keeps getting turned to this baffles me. How these people sit in judgment of one choice bothers me. When smoking contributes to the top six of eight killers in the world, when drug use and other over indulgences can destroy lives and unbalance people (like Erik Rhodes), it seems all right to porn studios, model representatives and the Gay Mafia.

Take FabScout. Upfront on its website Link Opens in a New Window is its policy on safe sex (should be “safer sex”). Why not a policy on drug use? It’s okay for your models to use steroids? It’s okay for your models to get high on crystal meth, PCP, bath salts? Seems to me, if you want to protect your “investment” in your models, why don’t you protect them by assuring they’re all healthy and drug free.

Barebacking is a choice, just like everything else here. If you’re going to allow people the right to choose other behaviors, why not barebacking? Is it because these men are attractive and musclebound and beautiful that you can somehow overlook these behaviors?

Still seems so hypocritical.


Update 3: Cleaning Up After the Death of a Porn Star (June 19, 2012)
Update 4: Postscript on My Posts About the Death of Erik Rhodes (June 20, 2012) 

        

P.S.

Gawker has published one of the most comprehensive explorations of the life and death of Erik Rhodes (real name James Elliott Naughtin). Check it out Link Opens in a New Window.

Bareback Reference Dictionary of Sexual Terms, Websites, Groups and People Commonly Known in the Bareback Community

Announcing the Bareback Reference Dictionary Version 1.0

I’m pleased to announce the Bareback Reference Dictionary.

This is a new resource that will be constantly updated. I know there’s a lot of terms and people missing. So I’ll be adding them a little at a time. But I got to a good stopping point and decided to launch the thing so people could start taking a look at it.

In the last couple of weeks, a few people have been coming to me asking questions. What does “undetectable” mean? What do you mean by “churning”? And there’s a few others similar to those questions. Of course, I don’t mind answering those inquiries, but I also know some people are just too embarrassed to ask them. So here’s an online resource to find out.

The Bareback Reference Dictionary (or BRD) includes the following:

  • Sexual terms and sexual slang related to barebacking practices.
  • People who are known in the barebacking community including porn stars, porn performers, porn directors, porn producers, bloggers, raw advocates and political activists, etc.
  • Websites and links to those websites related to barebacking.
  • Organizations specific to the barebacking community.
  • Anything else I considered relevant to barebacking.
Whenever possible, I link to resources and any related websites and online resources.

I appreciate everyone who links over or forwards along. And of course, I always welcome contributions.

Again, be sure to check out the new Bareback Reference Dictionary.

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