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Gay Sex Guides Content

The gay sex guides are listed in alphabetical order by topic.

 

ATLANTA
Escorts & Massage Therapists Opens new window of a page on this blog Reviews of some of Atlanta’s massage therapists and escorts in and around the city
Getting Laid Opens new window of a page on this blog Best days and times along with when and where in Atlanta
The Not-So-Sleazy Side to Atlanta Opens new window of a page on this blog Wondering where to stay to be close to action?
The Sleazy Side to Atlanta Opens new window of a page on this blog Insight into the hook-up hotels, sleazier nightclubs and other underbelly destinations, including the ones listed below
green bulletAdult Bookstore: Inserection Opens new window of a page on this blog One admission price, no hassle for any hookups
green bulletSex Club: Eros Opens new window of a page on this blog Best bareback sex opportunity place when it’s open late night, especially on weekends
green bulletSex Club: Manifest Opens new window of a page on this blog More of a blowjob destination although the Atlanta CumUnion is hosted here
green bulletStrippers: BJ Roosters Opens new window of a page on this blog The go-go boys can get a little frisky here if you can stand the smoky interior
green bulletStrippers: Bliss Opens new window of a page on this blog This is the club you can miss
green bulletStrippers: Swinging Richards Opens new window of a page on this blog High end and high priced, but a lot of fun

BATHHOUSE
Bathhouse Tips for the Newbie
 Opens new window of a page on this blog Everything you need to know for your first time at a gay bathhouse

GETTING FUCKED
Getting Fucked by iBLASTinside
 Opens new window of a page on this blog So you want to get fucked by Mark Benston? Here’s what he looks for in a bottom…
green bulletHow to get iBLASTinside to set up a group for you (if you’re a bottom) Opens new window of a page on this blog

GLORYHOLE
Gloryhole Etiquette
 Opens new window of a page on this blog Everything you ever needed to know to giving and getting sex at a gloryhole

MALE POPULATION
The Male Population
 Opens new window of a page on this blog Mark Bentson aka iBLASTinside breaks down the male population into groups as he sees them in his own structure

ORGY
How to Host a Gay Orgy
 Opens new window of a page on this blog Miss Manners would approve if Miss Manners were really a drag queen
green bulletiBLASTinside’s version of strip poker for gay men Opens new window of a page on this blog
green bulletFriday Fog Fuck Fest theme party Opens new window of a page on this blog

POPPERS
Guide to Poppers
 Opens new window of a page on this blog Those nice inhalants and how they enhance a sexual experience

STEALTHING
What Is Stealthing?
 Opens new window of a page on this blog The top slips his cock raw inside an unsuspecting bottom.
green bulletTop Ten Stealthing Tips Opens new window of a page on this blog For the top or bottom, how to give or get a load if the other party is reluctant to go raw.

SERVICE PROVIDERS
Being a Better Service Provider
Opens new window of a page on this blog Guide to men providing better service (especially strippers, go-go boys, massage therapists, bartenders, waiters, retailers or anyone in the service industry)

 

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Atlanta Massage Therapists Highlighted in New Section on iBLASTinside.com

Happy Ending Erotic Therapeutic Massage Atlanta
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Already I’ve head from a few people they love the new section where I highlight the massage therapists from Atlanta. I wanted to highlight the people who provide good therapeutic service but also add that little extra — that is, add on a happy ending to the process. I believe this is a must to any good massage.

I know some of you will protest. I don’t give a shit. I think most straight and gay men alike will agree this is what men really need to achieve a good experience.

Fuck.

I believe women would prefer it too.

So here’s the page you can find it at, my Massage M4M page Opens new window of a page on this blog.

Below are the reviews currently available.

Enjoy.

Evaluation Criteria

I am using the following to evaluate and grade each massage therapist:

  • The therapist’s ability to provide a good therapeutic massage;
  • Connect on an emotional and/or spiritual level with the client (me);
  • And provide a basic happy ending (preferably without requiring me to jerk myself off or even snort poppers Opens a new window from this blog).

Therapists earn more for their techniques, abilities, value and sensuality. And if a therapist happens to bareback, that’s a huge bonus, of course. But that won’t save you from a bad review (just check out Daved below, who’s so tweaked out isn’t worth it).

Atlanta’s Male Massage Therapists, Masseurs & bodywork specialists

Listed in Alphabetical order based on their known names (many are not their “real” names).

one-and-a-half stars out of five rating

Antonio

PRO: Hot Latino, great body, available nude
CON: Rush, can’t massage, extra cost to get you off

two-and-a-half-stars out of five stars ratingEcstasy-Spa-Bryan-Massage

Bryan Kelly

aka Ecstasy Spa or Mixed Massage Arts

PRO: Nice body, friendly
CON: Costly, older than advertised, intense smoker

two-out-of-five-stars rating

Muscle-bound Daved? David isn't like this any moreDaved

aka David

PRO: Barebacks, bottoms, once had a great body
CON: Tweaked out, rough skin

three-out-of-five-star rating

Haixing

aka Lucky Good Hands

PRO: Actually massages well, sexually teases, inexpensive
CON: No happy ending, no privacy, no nudity

four-out-of-five-stars ratingChest of Ramses or TheBestHandsGA Massage Therapist

Ramses

aka TheBestHands or TheBestHandsGA

PRO: Great massages, beautiful body
CON: Doesn’t like mutual touch, afraid of cum

two-and-a-half-stars out of five stars ratingAveda-Robert-Massage

Robert

aka Aveda Robert

PRO: Inconsistent massage quality, very chatty
CON: Relies on Aveda products, afraid of cum

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What’s Your 2012 Load Count?

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2012 is coming to an end. How did you end the year? With lots of cum in ass or blasting your DNA inside? Or did your barebacking keep under wraps, so to speak?

Polling Your Pole and Your Hole

For Bottoms (or Versatiles): How many loads do you estimate you took from different men in 2012?

  • I abstained in 2012 (or I'm a top) (17%, 40 Votes)
  • Between one and five (I'm a little picky) (16%, 39 Votes)
  • 21 to 50 juicy ones (I'm a slut, I know) (15%, 35 Votes)
  • 10 to 20 loads (at least one a month) (14%, 33 Votes)
  • Just one (a slow year or my ass if for one man) (11%, 26 Votes)
  • More than 250 (all cummers, always welcome) (9%, 22 Votes)
  • Between six and 10 (gotta be a nice cock) (8%, 19 Votes)
  • 101 to 250 bred my ass (I live for the loads) (6%, 15 Votes)
  • 51 to 100 jizz jets (two a week for this cum hound) (4%, 11 Votes)

Total Voters: 240

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For Bottoms who took more than 250 loads, what's your estimate for 2012?

  • 251 to 365 (about one a day on average) (32%, 8 Votes)
  • More than 3,001 (e-mail me please!!!) (28%, 7 Votes)
  • 366 to 750 (about two a day on average) (16%, 4 Votes)
  • 751 to 1,500 (damn boy, that ass is used!) (16%, 4 Votes)
  • 1,501 to 3,000 (now that's a super slut!!) (8%, 2 Votes)

Total Voters: 25

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For Tops (or Switch Hitters): How many different asses did you breed in 2012?

  • Between two and 10 (call it a monthly sampler) (30%, 44 Votes)
  • Just one (my cum is for one ass only) (17%, 25 Votes)
  • None (saving it up or I'm a bottom) (16%, 24 Votes)
  • Between 11 and 25 (two asses, twice a month) (12%, 17 Votes)
  • 51 to 100 (lots of places to plant) (8%, 11 Votes)
  • More than 201 (I fuck all holes) (8%, 11 Votes)
  • 26 to 50 (my seed needs a place to land) (6%, 9 Votes)
  • 101 to 200 (fertilizing the fields of plenty) (3%, 5 Votes)

Total Voters: 146

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Those are the only two new questions about 2012.

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Previous Questions and Answers

Here’s some previous poll questions. If you see responses, you’ve already answered them (so thanks!). If not, feel free to go ahead. It just gives me an idea about who reads my blog…

Do you bareback?

  • I always bareback (anyone & everyone) (29%, 318 Votes)
  • I mostly bareback (use a condom if he wants it) (23%, 255 Votes)
  • I sometimes bareback (just depends on the vibe) (15%, 168 Votes)
  • I only bareback with my partner/boyfriend (15%, 163 Votes)
  • I never bareback (but the stories are hot) (8%, 83 Votes)
  • I rarely bareback (it's only when I'm really horny) (5%, 53 Votes)
  • I bareback if I top, wrap it if I bottom (3%, 31 Votes)
  • I'll bareback if he shows me recent test results (2%, 21 Votes)
  • I hate barebacking (0%, 2 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,094

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Where do you fit?

  • Gay Male (83%, 858 Votes)
  • Bisexual Male (12%, 127 Votes)
  • Curious/Questioning Male (2%, 23 Votes)
  • Straight Male (1%, 12 Votes)
  • Male (Other Category) (0%, 4 Votes)
  • Male-to-Female Transgender (0%, 3 Votes)
  • Female (0%, 2 Votes)
  • Female-to-Male Transgender (2%, 2 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,031

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What's your position?

  • Mostly Bottom (23%, 236 Votes)
  • Total Bottom (22%, 230 Votes)
  • Versatile But Lean Bottom (17%, 174 Votes)
  • Mostly Top (10%, 104 Votes)
  • 50-50 Switch (10%, 104 Votes)
  • Versatile But Lean Top (8%, 82 Votes)
  • Total Top (8%, 80 Votes)
  • Virgin (2%, 21 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,031

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If you could, would you get fucked by Mark Bentson?

  • Absolutely yes. (45%, 412 Votes)
  • Maybe. (17%, 153 Votes)
  • Probably. (17%, 151 Votes)
  • Absolutely no. (13%, 118 Votes)
  • Probably not. (8%, 75 Votes)

Total Voters: 909

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What's your status?

  • HIV Negative (65%, 680 Votes)
  • HIV Positive But Undetectable (15%, 153 Votes)
  • Not Sure (9%, 96 Votes)
  • HIV Positive (6%, 63 Votes)
  • Don't Know, Don't Care (5%, 52 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,044

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How old are you?

  • 40 to 49 (27%, 278 Votes)
  • 30 to 39 (24%, 248 Votes)
  • 25 to 29 (15%, 156 Votes)
  • 50 to 59 (12%, 123 Votes)
  • 21 to 25 (11%, 118 Votes)
  • 18 to 21 (5%, 56 Votes)
  • Not yet 18 (3%, 27 Votes)
  • 60 to 69 (2%, 24 Votes)
  • 70 or older (1%, 8 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,038

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Do you take loads? (Select up to three answers)

  • I love taking loads in my ass all the time (39%, 390 Votes)
  • I take loads in my ass sometimes (24%, 237 Votes)
  • I love sucking and swallowing (19%, 191 Votes)
  • I keep cum inside my ass as long as possible (19%, 188 Votes)
  • I'm a top so I'm not taking any loads (10%, 104 Votes)
  • I empty my ass of cum after the fuck (5%, 50 Votes)
  • I don't bareback at all (5%, 47 Votes)
  • Fuck me bareback but cum on my back (4%, 39 Votes)
  • Fuck me bareback but cum in my mouth (3%, 33 Votes)
  • If cum is in my mouth, I'm spitting it out (3%, 31 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,003

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How do you give loads? (Select only one)

  • I almost always give loads in an ass bareback (30%, 275 Votes)
  • I'm a bottom, so it doesn't matter if I cum (24%, 221 Votes)
  • I give loads in whatever bareback hole is available (17%, 157 Votes)
  • I'm a bottom, so I just jerk off (16%, 149 Votes)
  • I prefer a blowjob and give loads in the mouth (8%, 70 Votes)
  • I'll fuck raw but I usually pull out to cum (3%, 32 Votes)
  • When I top, I don't fuck raw, but I'll jerk off into a hole (2%, 22 Votes)

Total Voters: 926

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Among the fuck stories, which topics do you find the HOTTEST? (Select just one)

  • Stealthing/Deceptive Fucking (40%, 389 Votes)
  • Gloryhole/Anonymous Sex (15%, 141 Votes)
  • Young (Fucking 20s, legal teens) (15%, 141 Votes)
  • Travel Diary Hook-Ups (14%, 134 Votes)
  • Adult Bookstore/Sex Club (9%, 86 Votes)
  • Dark Passenger/Molestation (5%, 44 Votes)
  • Ethnic (Fucking an Asian/Latin) (2%, 34 Votes)

Total Voters: 969

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Are you a member of the Bareback Brotherhood (#BBBH)?

  • No (75%, 621 Votes)
  • Yes (25%, 207 Votes)

Total Voters: 828

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What "type" and ethnicity would you categorize yourself? (Choose up to three)

  • Caucasian/White (62%, 562 Votes)
  • Normal/Average (27%, 239 Votes)
  • Cum Dump (17%, 156 Votes)
  • Geek/Nerd (14%, 128 Votes)
  • Bear (12%, 110 Votes)
  • Athlete/Jock (10%, 88 Votes)
  • Chub (8%, 71 Votes)
  • Asian (8%, 68 Votes)
  • Boy (7%, 64 Votes)
  • Young (7%, 62 Votes)
  • Cub (7%, 60 Votes)
  • Daddy (7%, 59 Votes)
  • Exhibitionist (6%, 58 Votes)
  • Latino/Hispanic (6%, 54 Votes)
  • Married Man (5%, 49 Votes)
  • Twink (5%, 44 Votes)
  • African-American/Black (4%, 39 Votes)
  • Dominant (4%, 37 Votes)
  • Voyeur (4%, 33 Votes)
  • Beef (3%, 30 Votes)
  • Mixed Race (3%, 24 Votes)
  • Muscle (3%, 24 Votes)
  • Skinhead (1%, 13 Votes)
  • Femme (1%, 12 Votes)
  • Redneck (1%, 11 Votes)
  • Cowboy (1%, 10 Votes)
  • Arab/Arab-American (1%, 9 Votes)
  • Pocket (1%, 6 Votes)
  • Old/Grandpa (0%, 2 Votes)

Total Voters: 901

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How often do you read iBLASTinside.com?

  • 2-5 times a week (20%, 174 Votes)
  • This is my first time here (19%, 165 Votes)
  • 2-3 times a month (13%, 114 Votes)
  • Once a week (11%, 96 Votes)
  • Sometimes when I want to jerk off (9%, 76 Votes)
  • Daily (8%, 75 Votes)
  • When I see a notice on social media (6%, 56 Votes)
  • Once a month (5%, 48 Votes)
  • Rarely (5%, 47 Votes)
  • When it pops up on an RSS feed (4%, 32 Votes)

Total Voters: 883

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Hope For More

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I’d hit the adult bookstore Opens a new window from this blog on the promise from some beefy ass from BarebackRT Link Opens in a New Window. He promised to show up and be wandering around in boots and a jock. As I arrived and my eyes adjusted to darkness and wandered around a bit. No beefy guys in jocks. No beefy guys. I check my messages on BBRT and he indicates he wanted to be sure I would be there.

I assure him I’m there now.

I’ve got time and I’m checking out a beefy, hairless Latino.

We end up in a room together, making out, licking his nipple. He slips on a condom and I fuck him a little.

I think of stealthing him. But that beefy ass is on his way. Right? I skip the stealthing and wind down the fuck, stepping out.

As I am waiting for the beefy ass, a couple comes out of another hook-up room Opens a new window from this blog. One makes a beeline to exit. The other hangs out. I get a feeling about the blond guy.

I’m wandering around some, hopeful for the bottom to whom I promised the load.

He’s a no show.

I make some rounds and the blond hottie is gone. I’m checking booths for a blowjob but the crowd is light. It’s coming up to be too late for the after work crowd and too early for an evening crowd. I’m thinking this just might be one time I’m not going to get lucky here. It’s rare but it happens.

I head upstairs once more and, hot damn, if the blond guy isn’t there. I lean against the wall, check him out. He checks me out. We’re in a hook-up room in moments.

With the door secured behind us, he speaks: “What are you into?”

“I’m a top,” I say.

“Good,” he responds. “I’m a bottom.”

He’s about five-foot-eight and got a beefy frame. As he removes his clothing — all of it — he’s not thin but he’s not too wide. He’s just perfect. He’s got these lovely smooth pecs and a nicely developed chest and arms. His belly is also nice and flat with a great treasure trail. But the lower half of his body is just hairy. His legs and ass are covered with a golden brown down.

I remove my clothing too. It’s unusual, even in one of the hook up rooms, to get completely naked. Yet we do and I want it. As we come together, we kiss. He’s an excellent kisser and his mouth covers mine, his tongue invading my mouth and hooking up inside my mouth. I can feel his body and it’s one of those when he moves, it’s like he’s flexing muscles.

As I take a step back to climb onto the padded platform that serves as a bed, I get another good look at him. I’m guessing in this dim light he’s 26. I’m also guessing he’s bisexual or even a straight bottom. We kiss more and roll around a bit. He sucks my already hard cock and then he rolls onto his back, hiking his legs and pushing his knees to his ears.

He knows what he wants.

He opens a tube of some generic form of jelly lube. He slathers it on his hole.

“You’ll cum inside me?” he asks.

“Only way,” I say.

He takes another dab of lube and begins to put just enough on my cock.

“Good,” he said. “I love cum.”

I line my cock up to his hole. I feel all the wiry hairs brush up against my cockhead. I can also feel how his pucker is closed up. But it’s itching to open. Again.

Pushing up against it, it opens and I’m inside.

I recognize this sensation. It’s wet. And not from lube. This man has been loaded.

Fucking starts and I push it inside him deeper. He snorts poppers and I begin really popping my cock. His own cock isn’t hard, which doesn’t surprise me. But as I feel around, I notice the cum within his pubes. Is it his? Is it someone else’s?

His ass is tight with some resistance here and there. I can tell he’s not experienced. He’s not flexing his muscles at all. While he verbally encourages my fucking and squirms a little, he’s not yet learned how to milk a cock with the motion of the fuck.

I encourage him to sit on my cock for a moment.

Now this offers no resistance and I get a really good look at him. Again, he’s got one of those beautifully put together muscle bodies that’s not over done. The shadows of the room play here and there just perfectly. His nipples sit almost in the middle of his nicely built pecs. As I run my fingers across his chest, you can feel a little stubble where he’s shaved or clipped off the errant hair or two. But there’s a natural smoothness elsewhere.

In this position, his ass naturally milks my cock. I haven’t snorted any poppers but I’m resisting plunging over the edge into the point-of-no-return. And then he starts talking about me cumming, but he wants it on his back.

I flip him back over and begin to fuck him in earnest with some fever after taking a hit off the poppers. It’s getting a little warm with the exertion. But I can’t wait to add my cum to the mix already in his ass, which he indicates is three or four loads. I ask him if he wants my load and he tells me he does.

My cock begins to throb and I let my load go.

I push hard deep into him and try to get it even deeper. I keep the pace before collapsing on him, my cock still buried inside him.

When I finally catch my breath, I ask, “How long have you been taking loads?”

“Not very long,” he says. “Just a few months.”

“Really?” I’m even surprised at this, although I suspect it’s a little longer. “You like it?”

“I love it,” he says. “I got fucked a few times with condoms and it just irritated my ass.”

“Are you married?” I ask.

“Yea,” he says.

“To a woman?”

“Yea.”

“Y’all fuck any more?”

“Not that much.”

I pause for a moment and question whether to tell him what I’m thinking.

“Well, I’d like to fuck you again,” I say. “Beside, I’m kind of known in the bareback community.”

“Really?” he says. “How?”

“I write a blog.”

“You’re not ‘iBLASTinside’?”

“Yup,” I smile. “That’s me.”

“Fuck,” he says. “I’ve been wanting you to fuck me.”

“Well, I just did,” I say. “You ought to feel like it when I have more time and more room.”

“You did damn good with what you had.”

I finally pull my cock out. I’m still hard and tempted to load him again but I need to head home, as does he.  We exchange names with the promise he’ll e-mail me. Oh and it turns out he was in his late thirties.

Of course, he hasn’t e-mailed me yet (UPDATE: actually, he has Opens a new window from this blog). That’s the course of things. But I can always hope for more.

               

Beefy ass from BBRT eventually did e-mail me, at first saying he thought me an online flake. Of course, there’s nothing further from the truth. Later he sent and e-mail that says the following:

 He chickened out.

As it turned out, it was for the best. I rather liked breeding the married, blond bottom happened to be rather enjoyable. And I really hope for more. Because unlike a member of BBRT, the married, blond bottom wasn’t chicken.

Ideas for Swinging Richards… or Another Gay Male Stripper or Go-Go Boy Bar

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I just earned Medallion status on Delta airlines. It’s one of those mile-markers I’ve been looking forward to achieving. I get on the plane earlier, I get upgrades, more miles, preferred seats and other perks. I’ve been Gold and Platinum level at certain hotels. I also love it when I book events places and I earn special treatment for that.

It’s great being recognized.

One town that does this well is Las Vegas, which provides VIP service at many clubs and hotels for the high rollers — also known as “whales.” These are people with money who arrive with the intention of spending money and expect to be treated with a little extra finesse.

I wish that Swinging Richards Opens a new window from this blog would consider doing the same. In fact, I have a few ideas to make Swinging Richards a much more upscale experience.

The True VIP Experience at Swinging Richards

VIP Concierge

In the front corner of the bar, there’s a “dead” space where a large screen TV sits. A small reception desk should be put here. All VIP members should check in here. Additionally, celebrations and other special requests can register here. A velvet rope seating area in the middle section could be set up for VIP members, their guests and those who choose to pay the one-time VIP admission for the night.

The VIP Concierge can also make arrangements for any dancer requests, a private dance or lap dance. As part of the service, anyone can come up and see who’s registered to work that evening and arrange for lap dances without the harassment or embarrassment of trying to find the dancer in the crowd, catching his eye and motioning him over.

Providing the Concierge with your credit card, you almost never need to pull any money out. Ask for cash — a stack of ones, twos, fives, tens or twenties — and the Concierge can provide for you to tip for the evening. Or can hand you chips which work just like cash. It’s charged to your account at the end of the evening when you check out.

VIP Main Room Seating

Part of the joy of sitting in the main room is watching the show with three to six dancers on the stage. While sometimes tables are reserved, the middle section needs a velvet rope area for VIP customers for the evening. Inside this area, there’s upgraded seating and tables, upgraded from the uncomfortable straight-back chairs. Bottle service along with top-shelf call along with a special server at your beck-and-call at all times (I recommend Jonathan, he does a particularly good job; but someone who can be shirtless would be nice).

In this section, getting up to use the bathroom or visiting the VIP room won’t cause one to lose one’s seat. Your space is always yours for the evening unless you inform the VIP Concierge that you’re leaving for the evening.

Lap Dance Lounges

Added in both the main floor and in the back VIP area would be new Lap Dance Lounges. These are arranged at the VIP Concierge (or at the entrance of the VIP area) and cost a little extra. Unlike normal lap dances, the patron pays for more songs, the lounges includes a slightly opaque shower curtain to obscure the dance experience and it lasts for five minutes. For only $50, it’s not quite heading into a private dance (where you break the bank starting at $140 for 15 minutes) but it’s a little more than $20 or $10 for a song.

Private Dance Experiences

The pricing process is just so confusing to newbies at Swinging Richards that a flat fee structure must be instituted. Like the Lap Dance Lounges and the Concierge Services, fees for the services provided will be charged to the dancers, but the dancers have to feel they’re fairly treated.

First, the private dance rooms should be gutted and reconfigured to accommodate only one dancer and one patron. This would allow for more rooms for private dance rooms as well as the Lap Dance Lounges.

Standard 15 minutes: $150 (Dancer $90, House $40, Concierge Fee $20)

VIP 15 Silver Experience: $200 includes top-shelf drink for patron and dancer, t-shirt or calendar, free pass for next visit to Swinging Richards (additional Concierge Fee $20)

Standard 30 minutes: $275 (Dancer $190, House $60, Concierge Fee $25)
VIP 30 Gold Experience: $350 includes VIP 15 bonuses plus one Lap Dance Lounge pass with any dancer (additional Concierge Fee $25)

Standard 60 minutes: $500 (Dancer $375, House $75, Concierge Fee $50)
VIP 60 Platinum Experience: $650 includes bottle service or four top-shelf drinks, t-shirt and calendar, two free passes for next visits to Swinging Richards, two Lap Dance Lounge passes (additional Concierge Fee $50)

VIP Diamond Experience at Swinging Richards: Starting at $1,500 (Starting at Dancer $750, House $400, Concierge Fee $500)
Reserved front-row table in main room; Your private, selected dancer host with you all night; Reserved private dance room for you at your selected time; Full top-shelf and bottle service throughout the night; Included Lap Dance Lounges; Optional limousine service throughout the Atlanta or Fort Lauderdale/Miami metro area (optional for your selected dancer to accompany you to your door); Optional reserved dinner planned prior to your night with Swinging Richards (and your dancer may also accompany you to this dinner as well).

This is just the beginning to expressing the new menu of choices at Swinging Richards might work.

More Training for Dancers

Some dancers know what they’re doing and some do not. If I take a shine to dancers, I sometimes help them out with the best ways to approach and how better to make things work. I recently took the time to write a little about how to improve making tip money Opens a new window from this blog. The Concierge could help with that training, especially the ones who show the most potential. I can walk in the door and see the new meat parading about. If I give them a dollar, I’ll know within a few seconds if they’ve got good instincts to survive.

Working at a strip club is not easy. If you’ve ever watched Jerry Springer and the female strippers how they get into cat fights, you ought to see what happens behind the scenes Opens a new window from this blog at a male strip club. Sure, they all seem like bros, but the testosterone will get the best of them. There’s no hair-pulling, scratching or weaves flying. I even expected a little gorilla-like chest-thumping.

Violence is abrupt, fisticuffs are brutal and broken bones are not unusual. And while there’s the unfortunate things like this recent rape  accusation Opens a new window from this blog that’s made the news, I think training would serve to reduce such events.

Most of the problems I’ve noticed comes from over-the-top clientele who miss the mark on what it means to engage a dancer. Touching doesn’t happen until invited and if you’re a little too tipsy, don’t get aggressive.

  

A Note of Consideration

To Swinging Richards or anyone else who takes my ideas and runs with them: 

Ideas cannot be copyrighted. Hey, I know that. I didn’t put my ideas out there to make money (although that would be nice). But here’s the thing: Do you think I would be stupid enough to put all my ideas out there?

You’re always welcome just to go with what I suggest and adapt to your own business situation, but I’m a (get this) marketing professional who knows a thing or two. I’m available for consultation or even hiring

But if you don’t want to do that, I understand. But a few VIP experiences or some other perks always makes me happy. 

Yours,

Mark's Signature in White

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