A note from Mark: I received this as a comment from a reader. I thought it deserved to be an entire post as I addressed it.
I am an exclusive bottom guy who loves bareback sex and loves cum. I tend to be upfront about it and what I want.
What I find from the tops (who want it “safe”) is essentially the same as the bottoms who want it “safe.” They never have condoms but insist on using them. Interesting when I start by proposing to use condoms, responses to my posts seeking a top is ridiculously high.
Then they never want to use condoms when we actually fuck.
On the converse, when I specifically advertise for BB only, I get far fewer responses. So what the fuck?
Do the tops who want stealth really just looking to get off on deceiving someone? I can play that game if that is what works for you guys. You seem to be turned off by the direct “I want your bare cock and cum in my ass.” But yet if I pretend I want a condom on your cock, then I can suddenly get all the bare cock I want. any thoughts?
The answer is more simple than it seems.
“I’ve never done this before.”
“I’m a virgin”
“Just this one time.”
“Just put in the tip.”
Tops prefer bareback and I’d propose three out of four men fuck without condoms. Truth is, even when I get hit up, someone will say “safe only” to me only to learn I’ll only bareback. At some point, the horny bottom will decide he wants it too much and will ask me not to cum in his ass.
In the end, he’ll go home with a load in his ass.
The tops want the appearance that they’re fucking a virginal asshole without the risk of any sexually transmitted infections. You see, the condom Nazi lobby generated this impression that all that is bareback means it’s disease.
If you’re a bare-loving top who hasn’t faced the facts about the risks you’re taking, you think if you get a condom-preferred bottom who lets you in his ass raw will reduce your chance of getting something “bad.”
Of course, nothing could be further from the truth.
Barebackers tend to be in tune with their bodies. They know their statuses with any such stuff.
Other than chasers and gift-givers, true barebackers are among the safest to fuck. But many would much rather pretend.
It’s got nothing to do with stealthing. It has everything to do with deceiving oneself.
So post your ads for both raw and wrapped. Or don’t specify. And then given the choice, most will choose raw. If not, that’s when the stealthing fuck begins.
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