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‘Don’t Call Me a Barebacker Even Though I Never Use a Condom’

by MarkBentson on November 7, 2011 with 3 Comments
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Direct message received from Twitter

Mark, please remove me from your public bareback list. (Why isn’t it private anyway? Isn’t a public list what the BBBH roster is for?) I try to keep this account from going beyond the “suggestive” level. Follow if you like but your list with its description is a “no” but I’d rather not have to block you to get off. Besides, you already have my dirty account on list 2 of 4. If I tweet about bareback sex, it’d be from that one.

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Another closeted barebacker. In the end, I invited him to block me. He ended up on my bareback lists for comments made on October 29, in which he admits would be among the “very few explicit political/sexual” posts on the feed. He retweets comments from @BBSaunaSlut along the lines of “Bareback is king.”

That, my former follower, is how you got on my bareback list. You agree that barebacking is the way to go and you used #BBBH in a post.

My lists online provide some of the most comprehensive available of men who advocate barebacking online — or at least that I’ve discovered. Most people have a list of a few dozen or maybe a few hundred. Currently, my barebacker lists contain 1,668 men in four lists:

If someone attached to my feed makes a bareback-positive comment that rises to a level of likely participant, the account gets added. If someone doesn’t like it, just block me. Blocking me will drop one from all lists associated with an account. Unblocking immediately allows my account to see that same account again.

Truth is with this particular user, his fear of being associated with barebackers is just all out of sorts. He follows many on his PG account and, well, his many other comments are not sex-neutral. He’s just a pussy. Some friend of his confronted him when they noticed he’s a raw sex advocate and he freaked out. Instead of standing proudly that yes, he likes it without that plastic barrier, he buckled under and begged for mercy.

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Loading Zone: Bareback Virgin Top Experiences Bare Ass

by MarkBentson on October 22, 2011 with 3 Comments
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This message arrived yesterday, October 21, from a reader. With his permission, I’m posting his story. This adventure happened a couple of weeks ago. My new friend assures me this will happen again.

Want to tell your story? The Loading Zone is a feature of stories from readers of my blog. Just contact me Opens a new window from this blog and let me know what you’re interested in writing.

Bareback Bliss for Raw Virgin

Yo. I’ve never read your blog before yesterday but felt like I had to give you the thumbs up for your uncompromising perspective. I wanted to relate a short story about how I opened up to the world of bareback sex my very first time.

iBLASTinside's Bareback Loading ZoneGrowing up religious and conflicted about my sexuality, I didn’t start looking into hooking up until my early 20s. I had never even kissed a guy and didn’t know how far I really wanted to go with some anonymous hookup. One night, though, a two-hour conversation on a hookup site led from one innuendo to another until I felt like my balls were going to explode. A hasty agreement was made and I drove over to meet another young college-age guy at his nearby apartment (stopping to buy condoms along the way, just in case).

When I got there he wasted no time at all, moving in to kiss me. I was apprehensive before his lips touched me, but once I felt his body against mine I knew I needed to fuck him. We lay together in his darkened bedroom, jerking each other off.

I have to admit he was so good at it that he had me exploding all over myself before I could even protest or work up the nerve to propose getting it inside him. He didn’t seem disappointed, but instead took it as a challenge to quickly get me hard again (unlike you, I can’t keep a hardon after cumming) and fuck my cock.

He was a foreplay master and although I was drained from the first orgasm, he got me hard again. The problem was, as I went to slip the condom on, my cock just wouldn’t stay up — blame a lack of stamina and the unfamiliarity, I suppose.

He had clearly noted my obvious difficulty as he said “Forget that. Let’s jerk off together some more” and rubbed lube on my uncovered cock as we pleasured ourselves.

After a few minutes I was rock hard again and he was begging me to rub it up against his hole. At this point, I was still a safe sex adherent, but I wasn’t going to say no to that kind of request, so I watched him turn over and started sliding my cock up and down his ass cheeks, rubbing the shaft and cockhead against his hole.

You probably know what this bottom was up to. He just wanted cock and cum in his ass. As I’m sitting there up against him, he calls me by name for the first time that night and tells me he wants me inside him. And thoughtlessly, without reaching for the condoms on the side table, at this first insistence I angle my cock a little and slid it right in, like there were no risks and as though it was the most natural thing in the world.

We had both listed an interest in “safe sex” on the site we met up, and here I was deep inside him raw, with him ordering me not to stop. As a kind of last-ditch formality, as I felt our instincts controlling us toward our climaxes, I breathlessly asked him where he wanted me to cum, to give him an out, to let him make the decision and restore saner sex practices for us.

His answer?

“I want it right where you are.”

That was it for me. I pumped a few more times as I felt all thoughts leave my brain. The only thing I knew was the absolutely amazing sensation of cum welling up out of my balls, shooting inside him as we clung together in ecstasy.

We didn’t talk about the bareback sex afterwards, but I stayed in his bed up against him, with no remorse or regrets over fucking him raw. If I had been physically capable of getting another hardon at that moment, I would have slid it in his ass raw again in a second to recapture that bliss.

I guess he thought he had to “trick” me into being up against his ass raw in order for me to slide it in and let my load loose inside him. Maybe he did. I certainly came around to his way of thinking quickly enough. All I know is the next time I go over to his apartment, I won’t even bring condoms. Both my loads are going in his ass, where they belong.

 

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Swinging Richards Review Posted to Sleazy Atlanta Guide

by MarkBentson on September 19, 2011 with 1 Comment
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So my reviews of Atlanta’s sleazy guide would be incomplete without including Swinging Richards, the premiere strip club for Gay men in Atlanta. I admit it. I fucking love this place. I wish I could go more often and see the boys here. Someday I will. In the meantime, let me give you some of the secrets of the club, in case you didn’t know.

Dancers actually pay to work at Swinging Richards. Every night, the dancers “tip out.” A percentage of their tips or designated amount go to doormen, bartenders, the deejay and security. Therefore, the bartenders, bouncers, etc., are watching for anything given away for “free.”

The little blue pill might come into play. Because most of the dancers are straight, getting a hard-on is prime time to getting good tips. Boner pills are a welcome resource at the club.

All the dancers have multiple names. Their stage name isn’t usually their real name. If a dancer likes you, he might give you his “real” name, but often it’s also a version of their real name — like their middle name or a nickname. But don’t be upset by this.

A few dancers provide freelance work but most don’t. If they do, it will be expensive. Some use the same rate of $400 an hour as at the club, which is ridiculous since they must tip out at the club. A few have quoted me up to $1,500 for overnight.

Dancers will pop-off for you if you pay for it and request it. But don’t be surprised if they lie to you. Pay for at least 30 minutes in a private room and make sure the dancer hasn’t popped off yet. Ask the dancer what he prefers and likely you’ll end up sucking cock or eating ass for a while.

To get attention from a dancer you like, it takes cash. Dancers want it. It’s very simple. However, they aren’t all beef. Don’t touch them without their permission. Be polite and respectful. Generally, you’ll get attention you want but some dancers simply will not be interested in you. That’s how it goes. But tipping twice or three times while performing on the main stage helps get you noticed.

Some dancers have done porn. Some are even proud of it. Some aren’t.

Dancers lie. If dancers get your number, they might solicit you for funds outside the venue. Some might even ask that you send them money via Western Union or other means. Be cautious about this. Understand they usually won’t “pay you back” even in kind, especially at the club. Dancers won’t give you their true sexual orientation. They’ll see if they can pick up on your fantasy and answer the question based on what will turn you on and loosen your hold on cash.

Dancers are people too. Getting past all the shit they do and lies that patrons tell them, real people lie beneath the façade. They’re making their living. Many are students, some travel from out of town to work just for the weekend. So while it’s a fantasy, be a little careful.

FYI, I’m not sure, but I swear this is a pic of “Clint” from Swinging Richards. He’s on my Tumblr feed. Don’t know where anyone got him but that’s him… I’d bet a $20 lap dance on it. Clint, if you read this and know who I am, I’ll gladly take that dance.

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Another Bareback Porn Actor Switches Sides

by MarkBentson on August 29, 2011 with 4 Comments
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Chris Gabriel in Bareback Me PleaseYou can read (and watch) all about Chris Gabriel/Marc Dylan. Chris barebacks. Marc doesn’t. Of course, they’re the same guy.

Chris starred in an SX Video “Bareback Me Please” and a Treasure Island Media web video, described at Max Sohl’s blog entry, “The Schitzophrenia of Porn.”

Then on the Gay Porn Times website, Marc Dylan (could someone help this boy with his porn names) explains why he’s now switching to condom porn.

It’s no secret I’m a barebacker and I’ve got no personal beef with Chris/Marc/Whatever-the-fuck his name is. What I do have problems with is not this particular actor’s hypocritical actions but that of the industry. Brett Everett before him. Pierre Fitch. Chris Porter. You can name a dozen of the hottest names in porn right now and probably half can find their roots in barebacking or some excuse for raw fucking at some point.

If you’re cute enough and/or muscular enough and negative enough, gosh darn it, we will forget your barebacking and let you into the elite world. However, if you fuck up and get the dreaded HIV, we’ll kick your ass out faster than you can swallow a load of cum.

Mason Wyler might be the most highly publicized case of such, but I imagine there’s more — many more. And while Chris/Marc claims he wasn’t coached into the delicate touch of the interview he gave (I’m in marketing, so I know how this works and how to make it work) whether it’s true or not, he’s now got a terrific future.

Gentlemen, you’ve all bought into the controversy he created. Controversy creates buzz. Buzz is marketing. TIM and SX will profit as will whichever studio signs him (along with his agents, rumored to be FabScout).

Truth is, Chris/Marc likely will continue to bareback in his private life along with many, many others. Hell, I shouldn’t even mention this, but a porn actor (on the verge of being a “star”) contacted me begging for loads. He does condom porn but as he travels city to city, he raw fucks as much as possible — giving and taking loads. If you “book” him as an escort, he’ll pretend to be all safe. Wait a little later and hit the local adult book store to find him bent over taking anonymous loads.

Alas, I’ve still not synchronized things to fuck him (I’m still without a porn actor notch in my belt) but as I’ve met and talked with porn actors, I’m told it’s very easy to get them and breed them.

Once you bareback, you don’t rubber back up permanently.

Chris/Marc made a professional choice, not a personal one. I wish him luck to make lots of money and use the condom porn side for as long as he can. But when time runs out, come back for what you truly enjoy.

Chris Gabriel begs for cum up his ass bareback in this Treasure Island Media web video before he became Marc Dylan

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Slapping Some Sense into a Senior

by MarkBentson on August 23, 2011 with 1 Comment
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@PositiveLife tagged a Tweet with the Bareback Brotherhood’s hashtag (#BBBH), getting my attention today and sending me into a bit of a tizzy. The heartfelt piece, written by Charles Walton, a man in his 60s who became HIV-positive late in life, indeed tells a compelling story. (It’s something that should be read, but in April 2011, the site took it down so you can’t.)

But what I find despicable is the conclusions to which the author comes.

In summary, the author visits his doctor and gets Viagra, begins a three-year period of indulging in unsafe sex (in other words, barebacking) including visits to bathhouses that includes a gorgeous man named “Dave” who he singles out among all his dalliances to conclude, 18 months later when symptoms appear, caused him to seroconvert.

The implication in this story that “Dave” might be the culprit or Viagra causes HIV bothers me tremendously. Neither Dave nor Viagra did anything. The author’s justification that the temptation brought on by a turgid cock or a handsome man (who he’d seen numerous times at a fucking bathhouse, hint-hint) can be linked to seroconversion is circumstantial at best.

Every man — straight, gay and in between — finds himself tempted. And obviously, “Dave” was not the author’s “just this once.”

The author took a risk knowing the possible results but not willing to accept becoming HIV positive. Or thinking he might remain negative.

Furthermore, the author waits 18 months, failing to get regular blood tests with his physicals — if he had any. I am in my 40s. I visit the doctor at least four times a year and he’s always taking blood but not for HIV. It’s to check cholesterol, hints of prostate cancer and a dozen other indicators that come along with being older. If this man failed to follow basic protocols of visiting his doctor for regular visits, come on.

After all this, the author attempts to turn this into a safer sex morality tale. While heartfelt, this story isn’t about safer sex or condom use.

Condom use is not the end-all and be-all of safer sex. Using seroconversion as “wake-up call” for safer sex seems like closing the barn doors after the horses have already bolted. Now he’s going to become an activist and get involved in his community.

WTF? Seriously?

It reads like some religious conversion rather than seroconversion. He learned that condoms fucking suck. They lessen sensitivity and make for difficulty in maintaining an erection, especially as the plumbing starts to rust. So what do we need? More condom use? No.

The barebacking movement won’t back down. More effective safe sex messaging to resonate in the community won’t work. Believe me. I know. I’m in marketing. Nothing resonates with a cock other than the tingling sensation of another human’s skin. The intimate connection of that touch cannot be duplicated no matter what plastic flesh created in a lab.

The scientists need to figure out ways to kill HIV transmission in lubricant or absorption through inoculation. Our prophylaxis needs to be the “gay pill” to allow fucking the way it was meant to be.

As for the author, he has sampled the fruit of barebacking. As he adjusts to life as a poz man, the shock will wear off and, I will bet, barebacking will return to his menu. Oh, he will deny it as he has written this online article despite covering his face and likely obscuring his name. But fuck raw he will. He can’t deny that hard cock and how good it feels to touch another human without plastic between two bodies.

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