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Darkroom Etiquette

Darkroom Etiquette

To help those who have never experienced a darkroom sexual experience or those who need a bit of a refresher course, this is the guide for you.

What is a darkroom?

A darkroom is where no one can see. No one. Everyone is essentially blind because it’s so incredibly dark.

Why a darkroom?

In a darkroom, without the use of your eyes, you get the opportunity to allow your other senses run wild.

There’s a saying that people who are blind compensate with their other senses. Whether that’s true or not, within the darkroom experience, one cannot rely on your eyes.

This gives you the opportunity to let your fantasies, those things you can invent in your mind, to actually happen.

Who fucking cares if it’s real? Do you want a date or do you want to fuck?

If he feels like a 20-year-old, then believe he is a 20-year-old.

If the cock seems like it’s 10 inches long, then it’s 10 inches.

If he’s a muscle god who smells like a man, lick his fucking pits and enjoy.

A darkroom doesn’t get in the way of everything else, any potential turnoffs (like that ingrown toenail or jacked-up orthodontics) disappear. In the darkness, you’re fucking Dawson with his 20th load or getting bred by Brad McGuire (or whatever legendary top or fantasy top you can imagine).

How a Darkroom Works

The general effort is to make the room as pitch black as possible so that no one can see a darn thing. Of course, a little light will always filter in one way or another. And as your eyes adjust, you can usually make out shapes.

Still, the overall goal is to keep it dark.

That means, no matter how strong the impulse, do not pull out your cell phone and shine its light. It ruins the mood, destroys the fantasy and basically blows out everyone’s pupils, which have to readjust to the darkness.

There are three basic ways of entering a darkroom:

  1. Boldly walk in, not caring what you bump into.
  2. Sneak in along the wall.
  3. Hang around the entrance watching who enters then follow someone you like inside.

I’m generally someone who takes the stealth approach, feeling my way at first along the wall. This gives me a moment to listen and determine if there’s much action going on inside.

Bumping into someone will happen. It’s a fucking darkroom, so get over it.Take this opportunity to check them out. First with a light touch. Then, if they don’t push you away, keep exploring. Are their pants off? Is their dick out? Is their ass prelubed (or leaking cum)? Are they completely naked? Or does he feel like a wrinkled mess?

If he feels you back, he’s interested. If he’s not stopping you, he’s looking for some service.

It’s relatively a common sense situation, although I’ve experienced my share of trolls who cannot take a hint, requiring me to bail out of a darkroom. Generally, men cum about every 5 minutes, so if you leave the darkroom and return in 10, you’ll be in with another group.

To convey my intent, I immediately move my hand to someone’s ass and head to the asshole. If he’s got his pants on, I see if I can slip my hand down inside them. If he bats my hand away, I move on.

I also go for the most common erogenous zones, like the nipples. A little tweak will often open up someone to the option of a fuck.

Courtesy and Tips

Here’s what I suggest to make your experience the best:

  • If you are receiving unwanted attention from a troll, push his hand away — at first gently and then with force. If that doesn’t work, step out of the room (unless you’re in mid-fuck).
  • In mid-fuck, you are free to explore. Let the hands run over your body and don’t get all pissy thinking you should be left alone. If you wanted to fuck alone, you should have gone into a booth or room.
  • Moans, groans, grunts and any basic animalistic sounds are welcome. Otherwise, do not talk.
  • Turn off your cell phone ring and, for God’s sake, don’t fucking answer the phone if it does ring (yes, I’ve experienced it; some asshole actually got a call, answered it in the darkroom and proceeded to have a conversation; cleared the room out in seconds).
  • You will be touched and explored by strangers you cannot see. If this is an issue for you, do not enter a darkroom.
  • Bottoms, it’s quite preferred you be cleaned out and prelubed before going into a darkroom. Keep any lube on hand.
  • If you expect to be “safe” in a darkroom, go with someone who can spot you. One of the easiest places to stealth is in a darkroom, especially when things get busy. You can never really tell which cock is entering you. In fact, I’d suggest the condom Nazis to stay out of the darkrooms.
  • If someone pushes your hand away, consider it a polite way of saying “no thank you” and move on. Don’t be a troll.
  • If you’re not feeling the vibe, step out of the room for 10 minutes and return later. Generally, darkrooms turnover with new action every 5 or 10 minutes.
  • Sometimes you’re lucky to get a service-oriented bottom in the room, who will be naked or pants-down/ass up and allowing all cocks and loads. Be nice, don’t push, and take your turn. Don’t take forever to cum. Pump your load into him.

Hopefully this will all help make your darkroom experiences better. Please add your own darkroom tips below.

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An Update on Tokyo Valentino (formerly Inserection)

I’ve finally gotten around to updating my page on the absolute best place in Atlanta for gloryhole action for gay men and bareback sex — Tokyo Valentino (former Inserection) on Cheshire Bridge.

My entry on this adult bookstore even includes information on the secret third floor that you might find open on Friday and Saturday nights.

Learn more by visiting the continuing popular page at http://iblastinside.com/the-sleazy-side-to-atlanta-guide/tokyo-valention-inserection-atlanta/.

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Gay Porn Star Donny Wright Returns to Social Media Yesterday after Kentucky Arrest

Gay Porn Star Donny Wright Returns to Social Media Yesterday after Kentucky Arrest

Gay Porn Star Donny Wright (aka Nicholas Gonzales) returned to social media yesterday (Feb. 27) with an Instagram post and a few retweets.

Looks like he was well fed in jail.

Want to know what happened to Donny? Check out this previous post Opens new window of a page on this blog. Donny doesn’t mentioned it anywhere. Looks like he’s ocean side, but not in the blue waters of a San Diego coast.

Donny-Wright-Returns

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Gay Porn Star Donny Wright Arrested for Jacking Off on Fireman’s Gear after Getting Drunk & Breaking into Kentucky Firehouse

Gay Porn Star Donny Wright Arrested for Jacking Off on Fireman’s Gear after Getting Drunk & Breaking into Kentucky Firehouse

Mugshot of Gay Porn Star Donny Wright aka Nicholas GonzalesIf you’re like me, I’m curious as to what-the-fuck the latest arrested porn star looks like with his clothes off. I always do a search and get a sense of what he looks like as well as the “work” he’s done.

Donny Wright, aka Nicholas Gonzales, got arrested after getting drunk, smashing into a Louisville, KY, firehouse and starting to jerk off on fireman’s gear.

Wright/Gonzales told police he did it, “Because he wanted to.” No one reported whether Wright/Gonzales shot his load.

His crime first caught the attention of Gawker.com Open-New-Window-External, which noted the story in weird crimes. Soon Gawker updated with the connection to the porn world, which got other news outlets like The Huffington Post Open-New-Window-External interested.

In fact, Donny Wright’s last tweet from DonnyWrightXXX Follow on Twitter says he was in Kentucky on Feb. 15 (and the alleged incident happened over Feb. 16/17).

Donny Wright's Last Tweet

If you’re curious, here’s a little more about Donny as a porn star:

Bullet This is a YouTube.com video Open-New-Window-External interview (it’s somewhat safe for work) with him from NextDoorStudios.
Bullet The Sword Open-New-Window-External put Donny Wright on their list of the Top 40 Most Breathtakingly Beautiful and Huge Cocks in Gay Porn (he’s number 29).
Bullet Donny Wright does condom porn for a variety of places including NextDoorStudios, Falcon Studios, Hot House, Jocks Studios and Randy Blue. but apparently is currently a Men.com “exclusive.”
Bullet Had or if Wright/Gonzales been able to complete the deed, I doubt he’s made much of a mess. Photo below as proof.

Cumshot from Donny Wright

 

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Blogs, Search Terms and Pages for iBLASTinside Visitors in November 2012

The Websites that Get You Here

I find this stuff interesting and I thought I’d share it for those of you who gives a shit (and might like to check out other destinations). These are the sources of referrals from other websites that come to iBLASTinside.com. This is the top 10 of the ones that send folks to my blog.

Twitter referrals — everyone and anyone, since Twitter converts all URLs to the t.co domain…  same as October.

Confessions of a Bareback Sauna Slut Blog from Josh Landale maintains his second spot in October just like September.

My Tumblr account at Barebacking.Tumblr.com notches up The Big Riser one from the #4 position.

Referrals from Facebook ticks down On a downward trend from #3 in October.

My other Tumblr account, BarebackOne.Tumblr.com, slides up The Big Riser one spot.

BikeGuy13, one of my best blogger friends, returns The Big Riser to the top 10.

SmoothButtforMatureTops blog jumps two The Big Riser after returning to the top 10 in October.

TreasureIslandBlog.com reemerges in the top 10 The Big Riser thanks to posting one of my entries as a two-part series on its Cum Sloppy stories Opens a new window from this blog.

Reddit drops On a downward trend two spots.

 RentBoy.com plunges On a downward trend five spots.

 

The Pages You Look at Most

The top viewed pages for the month shows readers’ interest. In November, these were the pages visitors looked at most often.

Guide to Gloryhole Etiquette (Same for third month.)

Guide to Visiting a Gay Bathhouse (Same for second month.)

Inserection Adult Bookstore in Atlanta The Big Riser (Up three spots.)

iBLASTinside Bareback Theater On a downward trend (Down one from the #3 spot.)

How to Meet and Get Fucked by Mark Bentson (Same for third month.)

Poppers and Persuasion: A Guide The Big Riser (Up three from the #9 spot.)

Top 10 Stealthing Tips (Same for second month.)

Bareback Movie Gallery The Big Riser (Up one from #9 spot.)

Guide to the Sleazy Side of Atlanta The Big Riser (Up one from #10 spot.)

Stealth Bomb: What It Is, What It Isn’t and How It Works The Big Riser (Premier in the top 10.)

 

The Terms You Google to Get Here

Here are the top 10 search terms in November 2012.

iblastinside (same for many months)

bareback blog (same for second month)

i blast inside The Big Riser (#7, up four)

glory hole etiquette On a downward trend (#3, d0wn one)

gay sauna tumblr (same for second month)

gay bareback blog The Big Riser (#10, up four)

iblastinside.com On a downward trend (#4, down three)

gloryhole etiquette On a downward trend (#7, down one)

stealth barebackThe Big Riser (premier in top 10)

bareback blogs On a downward trend (#8, down two)

 

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