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A blind leading the blind mentality seems to permeate the world. We don’t want our children to be taught about sex or they might have it. Yet we all have cocks and vaginas and asshole and clits.

Then there’s this thing called the Internet and it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out which goes where. Before you know it, little honors student and Christian Jessica Jane Lister is pregnant with football quarterback Cody Wall’s baby and they’ve both got genital warts.

We want our schools to teach creationism but not evolution but we don’t want our churches to support science. Hell, the Georgia Legislature is trying to pass a law that citizens have a right to carry guns into their churches, so we can kill the preacher if he says something blasphemous (like Jesus turned water into wine; wrong! Jesus turned water into grape juice).

It stands to reason that a lot of the hate I’ve garnered causing people to protest against Str8Cam Jeff Opens new window of a page on this blog and others steams from a misunderstanding of my most controversial posts about stealthing.

I know a lot of my readers think stealthing is hot, hot, hot. You jerk off to it. It’s the forbidden fruit. All of us have fantasies we all enjoy, just beyond the borders of what we’d really do.

Then again, it might be something we do.

In the barebacking world, there’s bug-chasing and gift-giving along with a Russian roulette of who-the-fuck-cares breeds us.

But I am known for stealthing, for giving the world the top 10 tips for stealthing Opens new window of a page on this blog, for explaining barebacking in meaningful ways that there’s no denying what’s really happening.

I have been deceptive. And that’s not explaining all my motivations.

The Entire Truth

Whenever I watch a magician — even someone like Lance Burton or David Copperfield — it’s become second nature for me to figure out how the trick is done. It’s not really hard to do. I can’t stand to watch “America’s Got Talent” and to see Howie Mandel be amazed at a relatively simple trick and to say, “I don’t know how you did that!”

I can tell you.

When I began the entries on busting condoms, taking condoms off and other forms of sabotage, the outrage was palpable. Most hated it. Many thought I’d broken some sacred contract.

How, I have no idea. Anonymous sex is just that. Why they have this higher-than-mighty sense one must adhere to a code when fucking someone who you don’t even know their first name, I don’t comprehend. Why? And especially why when one knows the other person isn’t put into any harm.

The mighty think that the stealther has some puss-filled cock shooting out disease upon infection and reigning some destruction upon the other.

Nonetheless, until I started writing about it, no one was.

I don’t count myself as some savior. I don’t. But I do see some of what I wrote as an education.

I do explain if you’re stupid enough to want to fuck in places where you’re not going to know your top or bottom, how one might protect oneself. How to bring your own condoms, monitor the use of the condoms and maintain your own safety.

You are accountable for your own safety. No one else.

Welcome to Real Life

It’s so very odd how some consider this bond of sex sacred even though you’re fucking with a stranger. For example, if a journalist is speaking to a source and the source wants to go “off the record” — meaning the content to follow is not to be published or broadcast — the journalist must agree to do so verbally as well. It must be stated so and both parties have to make an agreement.

Pulling out a condom just with the assumption someone will wear it doesn’t work that way.

I’m not saying this stuff just to piss people off. I’m trying to get reality to sink in. This is how the world works. Assuming an asshole top who wants to get off raw or a bottom who wants a load is going to fuck according to some honor code is just plain stupid.

 

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Condom Versus Bareback Sex

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I’ve received a couple of e-mails just today from men confronting a crossroads on which path to take. I’m going to share what each had to write.

Being gay is one thing. You are already different and somewhat an outcast for that.

Then if you are into older guys and not guys your own age it’s another thing and another form of alienation.

Oh and then there is leather if you are into kinks and being subservient and being someone’s slave or boy and wearing a collar people thing you are strange.

And add barebacking to the mix and you are basically a fucking alien.

I’d say the only thing you could do more then that is becoming poz then good luck ever finding acceptance.

This young man in his twenties experienced first hand the hatred coming from the gay community for being a barebacker. Unfortunately, someone discovered his enjoyment at raw cock and, poof, all his acceptance in his circle of friends dissipated so quickly, he felt abandoned and forced into burying his urge to go raw. Now, with animosity and a regret, he wrote me thinking I would reject him too because he no longer barebacked.

Peer pressure. What an odd thing.

The other man, in his mid-thirties, wrote to express his newness to fucking raw.

It took me a long time to get to the point of taking raw cock on purpose.  Haven’t moved to all-bare all the time yet.

I still remember the first loads I took.  Was really nervous about it.  But now, I crave my buddies’ loads.  Sometimes I really want to be a cum dump and take all loads.  Haven’t got to that point though.

My Own Journey

In the late 1980s and early 1990s as the AIDS epidemic brought more and more death upon the gay community, I happened to be a fledgling twentysomething myself in South Florida. I lived far away from the big cities and worked way too hard to get to date men, as at the time I thought a Prince Charming still existed on my horizon would come and take me to new heights of love and sex.

You can read of my own sexual exposures by my molester in the Dark Passenger Opens a new window from this blog entries, which at the time, I’d confronted but didn’t face head on as this blog allowed in the years since. Yet as a young journalist at a small newspaper in the heat of the Florida sun, I got to see the worst that can happen to humanity:

  • A 13-year-old middle school student stabbed, snipped and raped (after death)
  • A 19-year-old motorcyclist with his brain scattered a few hundred feet — now I know why they call it “gray matter”
  • Countless shootings and stabbings of people, often for no reason or for some drug deal gone bad
  • Lightning strikes of golfers, kids playing outside or just random people
  • Skinheads and KKK recruiting in the local high schools
  • Vagrants and drunks falling asleep on train tracks to have the locomotive run them over and sever off some body part
  • Whole families driving off roads into ditches and drowning, never exiting the minivan
  • Beach drownings and backyard pool drownings of old and young, accidental or otherwise
  • Wrecks where the jaws of life pried open bloody mangled messes of metal and human fused together
  • Coaches molesting his female players on his championship team
  • And an honors student and latchkey kid, sniffing a spray can protectant, getting high, barfing and dying his backyard

These were not odd occurrences. This happened daily. Sometimes twice or three times. Over the weekend. For more than two years, I watched this carnage and human destruction up close and personal. No college professor prepared me for real blood and body parts and coroners and victim tears and invading people’s privacy to get a few precious words for a quote.

In the midst of all this, I began my own medical issues. My doctor, at the time, asked me if I’d ever been tested for the virus that causes AIDS. I’d developed some odd rash and he had no idea why.

No cocktails existed. As I recall, AZT was even experimental. People I knew who had AIDS would suddenly disappear only to have their obituary appear later due to suicide or some other “illness.” And if my life, just starting out, began with a doctor suggesting that a fucking rash might be HIV.

The test in those days took more than a week to get the results. I worried the whole time. And the whole time I worried, I watched countless people drop dead around me from murder, accident, mayhem and more.

But I didn’t have HIV. I was fine. I would live!

Life seemed brighter. The world seemed better. I didn’t need to worry. Everything would be a-okay. I just needed to be careful. Right? No unsafe sex.

Fuck. I barely had sex anyway. The death and destruction at work kept making sure of that.

I would try to use a condom if sex ever popped up or just let a guy suck me off. And I tried to date. But something just seemed unsettling to me.

Fast-forward

I’d sampled raw sex from the beginning — my first fuck ever Opens a new window from this blog — and a few momentous subsequent fucks Opens a new window from this blog. As I turned over my new leaf following the savior of coming out negative, I found myself slipping up from time to time. Often, it would be someone I really liked (or lusted after).

scruff-go-rawBarebacking happens. Any gay man who hooks up will likely bareback. A recent example to the right. I’ll tell someone I only fuck raw and they’ll change their tune quick.

Recent studies found that about half of all gay men will admit to having bareback sex. But that’s the admission. I believe that number is much higher. The study I’m citing was from a judgmental safer sex education effort and didn’t go at the study neutrally. Someone asked like I did — as you see in this pic or in a way that makes people feel “safe” to answer they’re okay with barebacking — you’ll find more people will admit to going raw.

While the fuck listed here didn’t hesitate, sometimes the bottom will wait a while and come back later with an “all right, I’ll let you fuck me” or “if you promise you’re DDF, you can fuck me.” Sometimes, if I follow through with the fuck, I’ll be asked to pull out.

I pull out…. after I blast inside.

Everyone knows my name, my e-mail address and usually this blog. Why they sometimes miss that fact, I don’t quite get it.

In my experience, those who eventually admit and will allow me to bareback — based on my photos — and knowing my information is about seven out of 10. I believe if I had a photo of an athletic body, younger age and a slightly larger cock, I’d get closer to nine out of 10.

And if I were to bottom, it would be close to 99 percent with those looks.

pornI wrote recently Opens a new window from this blog about a porn star who visited Atlanta during 2012. This performer, who is rather famous and qualifies as a true porn star, would have cost me a big chunk of change. He stars in condom-only porn. He refused to get fucked raw but would gladly fuck raw and, even knowing me and my blog, would breed my ass.

The schedules never meshed and I’m not messing up his career or the opportunity for him to breed me should he return to the ATL.

I believe that some people think it’s more acceptable to be a bareback top.

The more young, the more athletic, the more “healthy” looking, the more likely a raw fuck will happen.

Back to My Story

As I matured and had my experiences with dating and hookups, I had sex both with and without condoms. It’s not like I didn’t know the difference. It’s not like I ignored the choice before me. And every six months or so, I’d endure the long wait to determine if I happened to be HIV positive, worrying about what would happen, what other discrimination might confront me along with the homophobic hatred that already confronted my life.

Medical changes were happening and treatments were improving. People living with HIV didn’t die immediately. I had boyfriends, then partners. And my life progressed. When I would try to use a condom, it wouldn’t always be the most successful experience.

The difference between bareback and condom sex is like standard- and high-definition television. Once you’ve watched high-def, you really can’t stand to go back to the low-definition again. It’s fuzzy. You don’t get as much out of the experience. The sensations aren’t all there. You’re missing a big chunk of the fun. The experience is extremely lacking.

You crave the high-definition. You want to full-on overload that you get from the sensory inputs of going raw.

Anyone who pretends it’s “just as hot” or whatever else is lying.

My two writers know this. And this is the conflict they’re struggling with right now.

To the Twentysomething

You are a barebacker and you know the risks that come with it. You might pretend for the sake of your so-called friends that you want to wrap it up. However, what kind of friends are they really?

Maintaining a little separation of your sex life and your professional life makes a great deal of sense. But your gay friends cannot all say they hate you because you bareback. If they do, they’re not truly your friends (and it’s time to find some new ones). Barebacking is a choice.

I will say if you choose to use a condom, it’s fine with me. If I know someone makes a logical choice based on the facts in front of them, then I can only respect their choices.

Further, allow me to say Atlanta isn’t the best choice for the Leather Community. It is a small community and the choices are limiting, unlike larger cities where Leather has a larger presence — Chicago for one. I’d suggest you broaden your circle of friends and you’ll find several barebacking members in within BDSM circles.

And should you ever become poz, I promise you won’t be alienated either. There’s a special bond between poz men (I’m sure some of them will speak out).

To the Thirtysomething

You too are coming into your own, now that you’ve seen the greener grasses of barebacking. Even with your limited experience, you know that the sensory experience of going raw just can’t compare with wrapping plastic around a cock and sliding it into a hole. That separation blurs the enjoyment.

Can you truly make that choice?

Why I Made the Choice

As I wrote earlier, I was unprepared for the death, destruction and hatred I would see on a day-to-day experience. Compound that with my molestation, and you come to a place where I struggled to find intimacy and connections with men that simply didn’t not transfer through the plastic barriers of a condom.

Why would I choose to live a life hidden from those sensations I craved and deny myself the thing I wanted? Why especially when I knew it all could be snatched away in a moment due to lightning, an accident, a gunshot, a stabbing or some other act of fate that would take thousands every year but somehow spare me?

One of the oddest occurrences that still baffles me is the person who writes me and wants me to fuck him — but insists I use a condom. Oh, he’s  read my blog. He knows I only fuck raw. He’s aware that “I blast inside.” But he considers himself cute enough, muscular enough, hung enough, young enough, funny enough or some other talent enough that he will be the exception to my rule to fuck raw. He is special enough that he will escape my raw breeding. I won’t stealth him either. I’ll be honorable and fuck safely.

No chance in hell.

And if you think a car accident, a home invasion, a stray bullet, a blood clot, a drowning or some other death or destruction element will miss you — that you’re special enough that God will spare you — then I spent two years in South Florida meeting the people who thought the same thing.

Life is meant to be lives in high definition. That’s where I live it.

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What About the Children?

What About the Youth of Today and Their Opinions on Bareback? FUCK EM!
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Every time some political football enters the arena — the national debt, gun control, Medicare, climate change, healthcare or whatever the issue happens to be — and one side runs out of arguments, there’s this moment when the pundit tilts his head to one side, gets this misty-eyed reflection and might even choke up a little. And then he or she says something about how this issue will ruin the lives of our children, the next generation, our children’s children or some crap like that.

It’s bullshit. But it’s a reflexive moment where everyone, whether you’ve got children or not, that our instinctual survival-of-the-species part of the monkey-brain kicks in and we collectively think something needs to be done.

Why do you think we all find babies and even the youngest of other species so adorably cute and cuddly? Puppies and kittens? Baby seals?

This is instinct telling us to take care and protect our young.

Now that I’ve explained it, let’s talk a little about the recent attacks on the Bareback Brotherhood Link Opens in a New Window, my fellow bareback bloggers, bareback hookup sites like BarebackRT.com Link Opens in a New Window, our family of pornographers and, more particularly, me.

The Sudden Focus of World AIDS Day

Over the past few years, I’ve come to expect it around December 1, World AIDS Day. Funny how one day prompts some assholes who ignore a class of people living with HIV and AIDS for a whole year but become indignant when they discover bareback sex and groups like the BBBH. One particular person who bugchased Link Opens in a New Window successfully and documented it received some particularly violent threats this year, including details on how they’d like to kill him.

It’s not technically irony (Alanis  Morissette ruined that for all of us), but the condom Nazis Link Opens in a New Window who want to wrap the world in plastic so no one dies of AIDS wants to kill someone for getting AIDS. Just weird.

Once I’d engage these hypocrites who ignore all the other ways our people are dying Opens a new window from this blog, who don’t give a shit that the Gay culture of steroid-muscled youth is built around smoke-filled bars serving alcohol with gun-toting drug dealers selling crystal meth (or “Tina”), ecstasy (or “Molly”), and cocaine.

Where’s your righteous indignation there?

But I don’t. I ignore the attacks nowadays. I delete the anonymous posts to my site wishing I would die or suggesting ways they would kill me. This very website fends off multiple cyber-attacks every second Opens a new window from this blog.

I refused to acknowledge or even link to the clever posts who have all of 200 followers on Twitter Link Opens in a New Window but figure out how to search for my brothers in cum and suggest others block them.

Twitter People to Block If You’re One of Those Self-Righteous, Plastic-Loving Pricks

I’ve been kind enough to compile the list myself. On Twitter alone, I’ve got six barebacker lists with confirmed men all over the world who love to fuck raw:
Blue Bullet One Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Two Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Three Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Four Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Five Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Six Link Opens in a New Window

I’ve listed all the Bareback Brotherhood members in four lists:
Blue Bullet One Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Two Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet Three Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet 
Four Link Opens in a New Window

You’ll also want to check out my fellow co-founders of the BBBH to see their lists.
Blue Bullet @ch4suk Link Opens in a New Window
Blue Bullet @gapozathens Link Opens in a New Window

That should cover all the so-called evil (but very enlightened and sexy) people online you need to block.

There’s even barebackers who somehow misinterpret the basics of the Bareback Brotherhood with strange, concocted vendettas out for me.

Hiding Behind ‘the Children’

Like some final bastion of refuge, the truth is arguing that safer sex is the only sex doesn’t work. The fear that came with AIDS/HIV of the 1980s and 1990s simply doesn’t work. HIV/AIDS is now defined by the medical community as a chronic condition Link Opens in a New Window, like “arthritis, asthma, cancer, COPD [and] diabetes.” It’s like living under the constant “orange” threat after 9/11.

The argument goes that we older folks are influencing younger people in their late teens and early twenties to accept bareback sex as normal and natural. Our “influence” is causing these youths to engage in so-called “unsafe” activity.

No, it’s causing them to act natural.

The most unnatural thing is to stick a piece of plastic on your cock in order to have an intimate act.

It’s not influenced by barebackers.

These assholes have the same kind of sense that we’re converting young men into barebackers the same way the homophobic think the Gays are converting youth into homosexuals.

It’s just ludicrous.

Talk to one. He will tell you about the love for the cum in his ass or dumping a load in a bare ass. It’s nothing to do with influence. It’s a natural appeal to do what comes naturally.

I’m Not Changing Anyone’s Mind

I know I’m not. I know I could never have a reasonable conversation with one of these jackoffs. I also know people who’ve been reading my site about stealthing Opens a new window from this blog and bugchasers Opens a new window from this blog and barebacking are misinterpreting the basics.

I can’t change a mind.

But what I do know is I appreciate the attention.

My readers are higher than ever, especially since some female porn slut thinks she’s got the upper hand on me and she can bareback all the guys she wants but men fucking raw is naughty, naughty.

Well, put me on Santa’s naughty list, take the saddle off the reindeer and let’s ride raw.

Fuck the children! I mean the LEGAL children of age, of course. No stocking for me.

 

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Feedback on the Grindr Hate Message for the 23-Year-Old Openly POZ Barebacker

Overtake Hate of Barebackers and POZ
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Recently I posted a screenshot from Grindr sent to an openly POZ barebacker who happened to be online in Pittsburgh recently. The young man, who asked me not to use his name or photo, sent me the screenshot. He’d been floored.

Since turning HIV-positive a few years prior, he’d been honest with everyone online about his status as well as his preference to bareback. The result hadn’t been as much acceptance as there had been scorn, like this example.

I’d asked iBLASTinside readers to respond and some of you did. I wish a few more would, but here’s what I’ve received so far…

          

Those Who Protest Too Much

Andre wrote on 28 June 2012:

I don’t see what the fuss is about barebacking … it’s a personal choice and more than likely the a-hole who text those messages in the image above probably barebacks as well, when push comes to shove … you know what they say about those who protest too much …

          

Kudos to Leather Pup

Mindtrip wrote on 28 June 2012:

And people wonder why guys are lead to lie about their status.

It’s not just rejection; it is this hatred and disdain that leads to fear.

Kudos to this leather pup for his honesty to himself and to others.

          

Report and Block his Punk Ass

SeaGuy wrote on 29 June 2012: 

People who send messages like the one above to someone they do not know, attacking that person for the lifestyle they lead, are usually pathetic individuals who hate themselves for partaking in the particular lifestyle choice they are so against.

They also tend to not have anything else going on in their life. I don’t know of anyone in my life who has a hobby attacking strangers for barebacking. I would just report that pathetic hater for hate speech to Grindr then block his punk ass. He’s so pathetic it’s not worth your time to dwell on it.

          

Meet this Shit with Payback

HungLatinDom posted on 28 June 2012:

You should post the Grindr profile of the guy too. This kind of shit must be met with a payback. That kind of hate cannot be let unbound and with no response.

I pity the jerk, in any case. This kind of person hates us because we spoil their perfect life; if it would not be because filthy fags like us, he could have plenty of bareback sex. He wants it, he can’t have it, we are to blame. WHEN (not if) he gets poz, it’s gonna be ugly. I have seen it before, but it’s fair payback. All that hate is in their minds, nobody else is to blame.

When I seroconverted, I took it rather well. I made my life better in some aspects and realize some things. I never discriminated against poz gays, I was in peace with myself. Haters like him don’t have that advantage and they realize they turned into something they hate violently.

A Note from Mark

When I received the screenshot, I asked for the guy’s photo if the young pup had it. Like most chicken shits, he’d never uploaded a photo and, as you see in the image, never chosen a name for himself. Believe me, if I’d had any further information, I’d gladly have published it.  

          

Payback Is Not Cool

GermanFucker wrote on 28 June 2012: 

Someone who is open about his barebacking habits and his serostatus deserves all the respect and praise in the world, just like those who lie and mislead in order to infect deserve the scorn of the community. If you are open about barebacking and HIV everybody else can make his own decisions and will eventually realize that there are a lot of poz people out there and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with them. (And that if you want to be on the safe side, you can use a condom.)

However I find language like, “This kind of shit must be met with a payback,” dangerous and frightening.

Dude is a moron and a hater. He deserves to be ridiculed, made fun off and exposed for the douche he is. More than that he should be educated. What would not be ok is if someone went out and tried to poz the guy. There are limits. Calling it “payback” is a bit too much of a blank cheque. Not cool.

          

Karma Will Get Him

gd wrote on 28 June 2012 

This kid is probably going to get what he deserves. He is going to piss off a guy he shouldn’t about barebacking and he is going to get it. It’s that-asshole-better-than-thou attitude that guys hate. It’s one thing to disagree but another to hate and be so forceful about your view and so cryptic and dangerous.

I’ll admit it I am not really that much of a barebacker. I want to do it more but I am nervous and afraid. It’s sort of on hold right now. However sometimes I get messages from poz or undectable tops even though it’s in my profile I am not into that.

I don’t tell them to go die in a hole or go to AIDS country or anything like that. I tell them how flattered I am but I would rather try to play with neg guys (even though guys lie).

Some of them are okay but some get pissed. Some guys have called me a stupid naïve asshole for thinking that it’s okay to bareback with neg guys because all guys are poz and I am going to get pozzed anyways so I might as well do it with him. How romantic.

Everyone has their own view of barebacking.

Some guys don’t care about status and do it with anyone. Some guys are cum dumps. Some care about the status, and some are afraid to bareback.

I have nothing against poz guys or undetectable guys. Some I have talked to seem so nice and knowledgeable that I feel I am at fault for turning them down sometimes. But I don’t want to be poz. It might happen one day but I am really young and I want to stay neg for as long as I can. Safest way to do that right now is limit going raw tremendously. I really wanted to go to that CumUnion thing though but that would be dangerous.

I actually respect tops and bottoms both who, with their heart and mind, decide that they want to bareback and are not ashamed or afraid of it and don’t give a damn what others’ think. It’s their choice, their right, and their life and they don’t pussyfoot about it or make excuses.

But guys like this asshole on Grindr? He’ll say the same thing about an older guy or a guy he considers ugly.

Karma will get him.

          

I Enjoy Raw Sex Too Much to Wait for Love

Pete wrote on 28 June 2012:

I’m a recent convert to the (openly) bareback camp (with much thanks to this website for the encouragement to do it).

While I won’t be telling friends and family I’m doing it (that would just bring on worry I don’t think is necessary), I will be openly asking people I meet online if they will bareback (and if they are negative, although not asking hasn’t stopped me in the past). I’m just going to use my smarts to see if I think the person is being honest with me. I’m a pretty good judge of character.

As for the feeling guilty or having people possibly hate me for not understanding why I won’t practice safe sex, I made myself think about why I was doing it and came up with this as my excuse if I’m ever asked: If society will only possibly accept sex without a condom within a monogamous relationship, then I’m not willing to wait until I find someone to do that with.

I enjoy raw sex too much to wait for a love that may not come. Love is fleeting and hard to seek; sex is easy and fun, if done with the right partner(s).

You’re only hurting yourself if you believe you are. Yes, there are people out there who won’t ever be honest and try to stealth and make others poz; while I don’t agree with that, I do find the stories that involve on this site incredibly hot (so I can’t really judge). It’s totally the taboo nature of subverting the person who doesn’t want to “give in” and making it happen regardless. It’s bold & selfish, but incredibly intoxicating.

Life is worth living when you can just be yourself. Thanks to the commenters on this site for making me feel proud for doing it.

          

Doing What Cums Naturally

Versatile RAW Piggy Bottom wrote on 29 June 2012: 

It is a shame that the person contacted you and showed how much hate he has for people who are honest in what they like and want. Most likely he is hating his own life and has to spread that hate onto others — and especially to those doing what he desires to do. Have sex naturally….bareback.

Much Love & Support!

          

Disgusting

Jonas wrote on 29 June 2012:

That’s disgusting. I mean this guy clearly did nothing wrong, so he should never get messages like that.

I hate shortsighted people.

          

 

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Hate for Out POZ and Barebackers on Grindr Sent by Other Gays

Too Much Hate in the World
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Recently on BarebackRT.com Link Opens in a New Window, I met a 23-year-old bottom. Very much into the leather world, this pup absolutely loves getting bred. He even grew a beard to help show off his more masculine side, because without it, he looks like a teenager. His body is smooth. He’s just too fucking cute.

I don’t mean a little cute. He’s adorable. Dirty blond

My BBRT profile Link Opens in a New Window highlights the fact I have a blog (or it did until recently) and he asked to see it. In it, he saw the recent rants regarding barebacking, hypocrisy and the porn world. This young man then forwarded to me a message he received via Grindr during a recent visit to his native Pittsburgh (you see it above).

You see, he’s an out barebacker and he’s very much out about being HIV positive. He’s not forcing it on anyone. He’s just out.

He didn’t message the guy who sent the above. Unprovoked, the guy sent this message to him.

This is the kind of shit I’m talking about when I say barebackers are hated. Hated by our own.

He’s an honest kid, straightforward about what he wants. This is what our so-called community gives back.

           

Please Comment

This young man asked me not to use his name and I didn’t. For some reason, I am hopeful for the best of my readers to show that you’re not like the fucking asshole who sent that grind. PLEASE comment. He will be reading this. Tell him the rest of us aren’t like that. Click the comment area below. Thanks! 

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