Stealthing is controversial. Yes, I know that. But it’s also a reality. If you want to do it, you need to know how. If you don’t, you should know the techniques someone employs.
The act of stealthing or a stealth fuck is somehow assuring that it appears as “safer sex” to one party involved in the fuck but, in fact, the other party has conspired to assure sperm will be deposited in the ass of the bottom.
How many times I’ve been at a sex club or an adult bookstore or during an online hook-up when a bottom hands me a condom then turns around, never to look back again. I’ve even been at a gloryhole when a bottom slips a condom on me then backs his ass up and never checks again to see if the condom is still on.
This implicit trust is by one party. I have not verbally acknowledged that I will use the condom.
These tips, combined from my own experience and discussing the methods with bottoms and other tops, brings them all together in one place. I hope you enjoy.
You’re a Magician. Practice. Practice.
Practice Your Trick for Your Trick.
A lot of what you do is sleight of hand — sort of like up close magic tricks. Understanding the diversions are more important to accomplish your goal and should be foremost in your mind. Whatever you’re doing as a top or bottom, you need to figure out a technique that works best for you. Nothing is ever on the fly. Some tricks may be practiced on your own but others require you find a bareback buddy and enlist his help. And like a professional magician, understanding that sometimes a trick can go wrong. You must simply be able to keep your cool and maintain the illusion.
Condom Preparation (for Tops and Bottoms)
If you control the condom, you control the whole trick. Condom brand selection can be the most difficult but luckily there’s always someone giving some away for free, either at sex clubs or doctor’s offices. Grab a handful. I find the colorful generic Durex brand brings me the most luck. Generally, you can’t find the bulk ones, but I did at Drugstore.com where there’s some variety packs there. My favorite seem to be Durex Rainbow Color.
The season (at least in the Northern Hemisphere) is getting perfect to begin preparation. Put your condoms in your car for a few days, especially if you can sit them on your dashboard. Then bring them inside and put them into your freezer straight from the extreme heat. Then take them back outside to the car. Doing this a few times — extreme heat, extreme cold — really breaks them down but only once or twice helps.
Pinpricks through the wrapper and the condom if you don’t have the time or patience to switch off with the extreme temperature technique is also fine. I recommend getting a very small pin and only poking though the side with the printing on the condom wrapper. If you are careful, this leaves the see-through side intact; tampering there is more likely to be seen.
Other Prep Work (Tops)
Tops will need evidence of their cum. For some, you might be able to produce more than one load. Or you just might prefer to dump both inside the unsuspecting bottom. So you’ve got multiple problems: Cum that should be “outside” the bottom (probably inside a condom) and a lack of cum inside a bottom.
Enter the solution: Str8Cam Lube . Condom safe, it looks and smells like cum. So if you know you’re going to fuck a bottom tomorrow and stealth him, preload a condom (make sure it’s the same color) with Str8Cam Lube (or even jerk off into it) and slick off the outside. Have it handy before hand. This is where sleight of hand is very important. You might even stage multiple condoms around the room if you’re not sure where you’ll end up. A lot of bottoms won’t notice condoms sitting out if you’re careful. If you finish up on the bed or the edge of the bed, have one just between the mattress, easy to pull out.
As a top, since you’ve already shot a load in his ass, learn how to use the lube to “shoot” another load on his chest using the lube. This takes some acting chops. Adding a reservoir of Str8Cum Lube in your hand, jerk off, staying loose around the palm. Move a lot (as a distraction) and talk about how hot his ass was. Then begin to “shoot.” Thrust forward with your body and dick while you squeeze your hand, moving your palm to where the pee hole is located. Aim down for his pubes. Grunt a lot.
Other Prep Work (Bottoms)
Yes, bottoms can stealth, as many of them told me. But in many cases, they aren’t in the driver’s seat, so to speak, since they cede control to the top. However, here’s a few things a bottom can do if there’s options to do so.
First and foremost, get rid of all condom-safe lubricants but not the bottles they came in (maybe not all… when you do have the barebacker over, you might prefer one). Fill up these “safe for condom use” bottles with oil or petroleum lubricants.
Now let’s say you’re going to his place to use his condoms and his lube. After you’re all cleaned out, take a nice glob of petroleum jelly and coat your insides. By the time you’re there, your pussy will be dripping for him (and won’t be a very friendly environment for condoms).
I Just Said I Wouldn’t Bite… You (Bottom)
With all your might, you’ve done what you can to get a top to fuck you raw. You’ve been rubbing your cunt against his hard cock and tried to take a seat but he just won’t let it in without that fucking piece of plastic. But you want his sperm so bad. You didn’t prep in any other way so you’re fucked.
Not so fast.
As a bottom, you need to provide full service. When he pulls out the condom, take it from his hands. Tear it open and apply it. Suck it. Lick it. And while using both hands to play with whatever is most sensitive like his balls or nipples, bite a hole into the tip. You have to know what you’re doing in order to make this work since you don’t want to mistakenly bite the head off his cock. It works best if you grind between your teeth for a second. Unfortunately, you can’t really give it a good rip, or he’ll notice.
If you have fingernails, you can slick up his dick inside the condom and use a nail on opposite sides to slice through.
If you can control the fuck, he will never know. So ride him. And if he asks, just tell him you want him to feel good. Relax. Lay back. Let the bottom do all the work.
Breaking a Condom (Tops)
If you can control the condom, you can control the fuck and everything about it. Of course, your prepared condoms (Tip #9) come more breakable than others, but sometimes that’s not the case. First thing is to learn how to put on a condom “porn style.” This means unrolling the cock in your hands, stretching it wide and putting your hard cock directly into it. This takes practice — a lot of practice.
During that process, you can pop a hole using a finger.
Perhaps you’re not so talented at this. If you put the condom on the normal way with the roll-down method, grab the tiptop and pinch with your dominant hand (your right hand if you’re right-handed and vice versa). With your non-dominant hand, grab near the head and pop the tip. This should create a tear.
Slipping It Off Mid-Fuck (Bottoms and Tops)
The whole question here is how much the non-stealther is monitoring the condom. If he is checking the condom closely, it would be tough. If he isn’t, it’s much easier.
As a top, pulling completely out and plunging it back in needs to happen a few times needs to be part of your regular routine. Even after the condom comes off. Work the condom down and then take it off. The best thing is to have a couple of additional things happening at the same time.
You want those distractions. If you can, give the bottom a whiff of poppers. Additionally, while slipping it off, play with his nipples, jerk his cock, kiss him or whatever else will distract him from your ultimate goal. He needs to be feeling something else rather than the difference of with or without a condom. You might even add some extra lube too.
The bottom stealther needs to create similar distractions for the top. If ass-to-mouth (ATM) is an option, you can go down on him. As you suck on him, then when you’re climbing back on top, slipping it off will be very easy as you go on top. You do you also need to try other distractions as well, like pinching a nipple, pulling on balls, etc.
Condom Watchers (Top)
So you’ve got a condom watcher. Someone who is monitoring too closely for a tip-off broken condom or to slip it off mid-fuck. How are you going to breed. First, you need to determine where the bottom wants you to cum. This maintains the illusion, of course. You also need to say you need to fuck in a particular position. Get dominant. My best technique I found is to position the bottom at the edge of the bed, pull the condom off, grab the bottom’s hands and pin them and then fuck hard core.
You must control your breathing so that when you cum, it’s not apparent you’re cumming. Immediately after shooting in the bottom’s ass, pull out and reach down to appear to pull off the condom. In this process, wipe off any excess cum from the ass. Produce the wet condom and drop it somewhere near his chest and/or face. Now breath hard and “cum.” Hopefully you’ve got some Str8Cam Lube.
Aggressive fuckers really need to pound to get off. So you’re probably out of luck getting the condom off. But beg him to cum while inside you. The cum goes into the condom. Take the condom off him. Suck him (distraction) and then go “clean up” with the loaded condom in hand. While you’re in the bathroom, you can load your ass with his cum.
If he’s not an aggressive pounder, you’re in luck. Just ask if he minds if you climb on top so you can jerk off while you ride it. Tell him, “It hurts a little when it’s going in.” You know how to wince. After riding with the condom on a bit, you add more lube or something and, when you sit back down on it, slip the condom off. Put it somewhere close by. Now, a good, experienced bareback bottom knows how to give a top the ride of his life. For a top who never or rarely fucks bareback, this will feel incredible so bringing him to climax will be easy. After he cums, grab the condom, grab his cock, act like you take it off and suck him clean.
What to Do If the Bareback Is Caught (Or How to Lie Convincingly)
Breaking condoms, overly attentive people, little slip-ups can cause things to be discovered. Remain calm with a “these things happen” attitude. If he’s freaking out, you just respond that you know you’re fine and have nothing to worry about and you hope he doesn’t either. If he’s the one who’s freaking out, he’s the one who will look like the problem.
Now if he starts to suspect you’ve sabotaged the condom or something else, you’ve got another issue. Try never to be on the defensive. Look him straight into the eyes and do not blink when you speak to him. Rapid blinking is a dead giveaway you’re lying. Also don’t divert your eyes ever from his, especially down and to the left (that’s another dead giveaway you’re lying). And don’t fidget with anything. Control your breathing at a steady pace and talk calmly (at this point).
Act like a politician and pivot on any attack. If he’s asking if you broke or sabotaged or took off the condom, say to him: “I honestly have no idea what you’re talking about or what you’re accusing me of.” If the condom broke, just say the condom failed. These things happen.
The most important thing is to never say too much. Don’t over explain. If there’s silence, don’t try to fill it. Let there be some awkwardness. It makes the problem seem like it’s his, not yours. And stick as close to the truth as you can, that way you won’t seem guilty or in trouble. For example… your trick just discovered the condom failed. He’s very worried.
“Are you sure I’ve got nothing to worry about?” he asked.
“I’m absolutely positive,” you respond.
If you can’t figure out what you just told him, read it again.
If you took the condom off and he’s figured that out, here’s where you have a choice. Do you want to burn him forever or do you want to fuck him again? Burning him forever, you might want to suggest (especially if he’s average size) that the condom just didn’t fit him very well and next time a more “appropriately sized condoms” should be used if he was the top. If he was the bottom, you might say something about needing to “feel” and the “ass just didn’t provide enough friction” (in other words, he was too loose).
At some point, you may need to abort. Blame his outrage on his past. Just simply say, “I don’t know whatever someone has done to you in the past, but this was just a fuck. Thanks.” He’ll be baffled.
Now if you’re hoping to fuck with him again, point out you’ve already fucked bareback by mistake (wink wink) and you both might as well keep fucking raw.
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