Gloryhole Etiquette: Be a Good Cocksucker or Cocksitter or Cockserver

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Last night, I went to two spots where gloryholes can be a terrific experience. But in the end, that experience turned into a bit of a nightmare.

An oral release can be good. It’s rare for me. It takes a skilled provider who knows what he’s doing. My experience last night proved to be less than ideal.

Two spots in Atlanta provide for great gloryholes — Manifest and Inserection (Cheshire Bridge). I hit Manifest first and, early in the evening, three suckers in a row did a progressively better job, which speaks to the skills of good suckers at gloryholes.

The first one took my semi-hardon and began working it with his warm mouth, bringing me to full-hardon. No teeth and good, deep strokes. He varied his pace and used his tongue. But after a couple of minutes would need to pause for a breather. Endurance turned out to be disappointing. His pause choice usually meant to purse the lips at the tip, lick a little before a pause. As I would begin to withdraw, thinking my time was over, he’d start back.

Second guy had more endurance and a looser mouth. He’d go deeper to where I could feel his nose hit my pelvis. But his solution when his mouth got tired. Hand jerk. And a hard hand jerk.

The third guy did a much better job with endurance, keeping it up for more than five minutes. His technique, which is among the best and I approve the most. Go deep, use your tongue to stimulate and shaft and add your fingers to the balls for more stimulation. Still, he resorted to a jerkoff.

After fucking a nice, very thin Asian, I hung out a while longer and found no new action (actually, I did… I went into a booth and found myself face first to three cocks, so I stepped off).

Off to Inserection, which I found was busy as hell. My first booth visit found a man with good oral technique supplemented by hand jerk. He used both together. Amateur, which made me think another self-identified bisexual who is just getting his cock fix for the month.

My next experience ended up in the same booth was a skull fuck buddy who could take it hard, but asked me to hold off cumming.

Don’t ever ask that.

Anyway, so we end up here and I’ve got suggestions to go all the way around.

Suggestions for Oral Servicing

1. Pace yourself.

If you’re oral only, don’t exhaust yourself in the first two minutes. I expect it will take me at least five solid minutes of oral before popping off.

2. Minimal hands.

If you must use your hands, do not use them in exclusion of your mouth. Combine the two. If I wanted a handjob, I would have done it myself.

3. No teeth.

I think it should go without saying but, fuck, I still get a good scraping. Last month, someone actually scratched me near the head on the left side of my cock.

4. Take a hint.

If we’re pulling away, you need to start doing your best or we’re leaving. Even if you do your best, it may not be good enough for what each cock needs (more on that in a minute). So don’t go grabbing after it. Just cause you didn’t get a load doesn’t mean we didn’t enjoy ourselves.

5. Sometimes we will be back.

Occasionally we will sample the room of cocksuckers and then return to the best. It’s rare for me to know I’ve found the best, especially if I’m hoping for a little ass. And I can count on one hand the number of times I know a blowjob is going to do the job of an assfucking.

6. I don’t want to hear you spit.

Even if you are going to spit, I want to believe you swallowed. So please, the whole places doesn’t need to hear you attempt to scrape your lungs and throat with mucus to remove every little element of my sperm. My swimmers deserve a death in your stomach or ass, so please, make their euthanasia silent for me.

Now for some of the motions I make (or I think a lot of tops make) to help you understand what we mean…

Gestures and Their Meaning

1. Hand at the gloryhole.

(Gesture by the oral servicer or the bottom.) Please put your cock through this gloryhole so I might give your cock pleasure.

2. Cock through the gloryhole.

(Gesture by the top or the servicee.) Please suck my cock.

3. Elbow or palm of hand blocking a gloryhole.

(Gesture by either party.) I am not interested in servicing you or being serviced by you.

4. Face at a gloryhole (usually with mouth open and tongue out).

(Gesture by the oral servicer.) Please fuck my face.

5. Two tops shaking their cocks at one another on either side.

If one is versatile, the polite thing to do is to kneel and start sucking. Usually the older, less good looking or the less hung should be doing the sucking.

6. You’ve been sucked for a while and it pauses with a push away or a tap on the cock (kind of like a tap on the shoulder).

This usually occurs when the other party wants to get sucked too or wants to discuss meeting together in the same booth. By the way, it’s okay to decline meeting in the same booth. For the gloryhole experience, part of the fun is the whole gloryhole anonymous thing, even though you can see them through the hole.

7. You’ve been sucked for a while, a pause comes and there’s a slap on your cock.

This usually means the asshole cocksucker is leaving. It’s also an indicator of a couple of more things that I regret to inform you. (1.) You have disappointed the cocksucker with your size. Cocksuckers like to be challenged and, if yours just doesn’t snake far enough down their throat, then fuck off. Or, (2.) the cocksucker thinks he’s so damn good that you should have shot your load by now and he’s done sucking you.

8. You’ve been sucked for a while, up to hardness and a little beyond, then the cocksucker stops and there’s a firm grip on your cock and a pause…

We’ll address fucking through a gloryhole in a moment in another section, but that is indeed is what’s about to happen. That firm grip means two things: (1.) Positioning your cock to line it up for the ass or (2.) Positioning your cock for a rubber.

9. You’re sucking a cock and the cock begins to move in a fucking motion.

The top either wants to… (1.) fuck your mouth or (2.) fuck your ass. The latter is more likely, at least when I make the motion.  If fucking your ass is an option, get to it. The most important part now to to vary want you’re doing. Go down deeper on his cock, work the whole shaft and see if you can take a whole mouth fucking.

10. He begins to pull out slowly.

You’re not earning your keep. The top is getting bored with the sucking and is considering moving on but has given you another opportunity to redouble your effort and prove you’re the one he should let suck you off.

11. A sudden and quick pull out or jerk away.

One of two things. (1.) You used your teeth. Don’t do that. (2.) The top is too close to coming and he’s not quite ready for it. Either way, take it slow if you get the cock back in hand, be gentle and kind.

12. The top’s balls are shaved.

I believe if a top shaves his balls or he makes the point of getting them through the gloryhole, there’s a task for the bottom and that’s to lick, lick and lick some more. Access might be tough, but still, it’s an invitation to lick away.

Now, there are many other possibilities. I will often step away and look into the hole. If, on the other side, I see a naked guy, I might give him a little more time to get up the courage to do what I hope he will do. Otherwise, I’ll move on.

Fucking Through a Gloryhole

The ultimate experience has got to be fucking though a gloyhole and, of course, I would approve of that bareback. If you are at all concerned about fucking barebacking, be aware that this is a potential experience when you put your cock through a hole. I have found that about 20 percent of the time (or one out of five fucks) you will luck up with a gloryhole fuck. Hints that this will happen can usually be told if you see the servicer is completely naked, but that is not always the case.

If the bottom chooses to use a condom, the sensation I’m most familiar with is what I’ll call the pinch. It’s how some inexperienced people will usually put a condom on someone else, by pinching the tip to remove air but leave an empty reservoir for cum later. Generally, the applier will catch the tip of the cock as well and it can, well, pinch a little. It doesn’t hurt as much as it’s uncomfortable.

Following that process is the roll, where the condom is rolled down the shaft. Again, this sensation doesn’t feel ideal but usually the sense is the sudden dulling of sensation.

At this point, you’ll usually hear the pop, as the bottom opens a bottle of lube and begins applying it liberally on your plastic sheathed cock and on his ass.

Finally, there’s the base death grip,  which guides the cock into the hole.

Generally, whether bareback or covered, allowing the bottom to back up on your cock is a good idea. Then, once he leans back onto the gloryhole, it’s the top’s queue to fuck away. The top usually moves for this while the bottom stays stationary.

As for bareback fucking, I find the bottoms are more prepared, usually well lubed and ready to just back up. They usually go from sucking to the base death grip.

It goes without saying that, if you’re going to be fucked, please clean out well before arriving and, well, monitor your cleanliness. If I catch the scent of shit, I will leave quick without the polite “thank you” tap on the ass.

As I have written, I have removed a condom while fucking and he knew it. If you’re a bottom and you want the condom on the top, pay attention.

As for how long it should last, well, there’s the polite way. If the ass is good, I will fuck it until I cum. Once I cum, I tap a nice “thank you” and zip up and leave. If I’m not ready to cum, I still tap a “thank you.” If there’s a problem with the ass, I simply leave. Nothing polite about it. I hope the rudeness sends a message to the ass he needs to check on things.

Final Thoughts

I love gloryholes. Although I do peek through to see who’s sucking me, at times, I sometimes don’t just for fun. As for Atlanta and other destinations, I welcome feedback for places of suggestion. I will give you my thoughts on the two gloryhole destinations…

Inserection
1739 Cheshire Bridge Rd NE
Atlanta, GA 30324

$10 cover to get in 24/7 except for a period on Monday mornings when they’re closed.

The space is in the basement of adult store upstairs.  Several paired up gloryhole booths with short benches and videos (which are normally ignored). Gloryholes are generally shaped like super-sized twinkies so different heights can be accommodated. But the MDF wood is about an an inch thick so good fucking can be tough. Five or so booths aren’t paired up for more “private” action without being watched but the booths are no larger.

You will not be harassed but occasionally a cleaning guy will go through and might seem a little irritated.

Dark with throbbing XM music played with dance lights in space. A larger room with nice sofa that generally no one sits in. Just off of there is a small “dark room” that used to be darker but now has lights in there. Sometimes guys feel each other up and occasionally sucking occurs here. Rarely fucking (it did when it was completely dark).

Bathroom with two locking doors but no seats on the toilets. Locker room and showers that no one ever uses. Drink and snack machines that costs cash; no diet sodas in the drink machine. Ms. Pac Man and other video games (strangely enough).

Pay cash to get in and receive a bar code that will allow you through the turn style; you will be asked for your initials. Used to have to show ID but no information was ever recorded. You can purchase poppers, lube and condoms. Warning that despite the labels, I do not believe that the poppers are legitimately from the place they claim to be. As someone who enjoys his poppers and knows which ones he likes and does not like, the ones I have purchased here have always been overpriced, never fresh and never the quality of those bought from other sources.

Manifest
2103 Faulkner Road
Atlanta, GA 30324
www.Manifest4U.org

A lot of details about Manifest on its website. Its open only certain times and it has a membership fee that can be pretty steep — I think I paid $25 the first time in. Then again, the other night, it was only $5. If you’re on the mailing list and know the password, you get $5 off to get in. Manifest does take your ID and record your information but claims the membership list is private. Additionally, the access is behind two locked doors that have to be buzzed in, therefore it’s more secure.

It is a lot cleaner than Inserection and has more advantages. Up front is a well lit lounge room with comfortable chairs, a cyber space with computers and a high-definition television playing porn (not bareback mind you, but still porn). It has kind of a Asian feel, very Zen.

There’s also a nice bathroom (only one room with a door that locks, but it does include a seat) and a urinal. There’s also a soda fountain, free, with diet soda, PowerAde and Mountain Dew (among others), condoms, etc.

The back half is called the “matrix” and is darker with music, lasers and lights. It’s more warehouse with larger booths that have small stools in many. Most of the gloryhole booths open to two sides (and therefore two options). Nicely enough, there are “hand-holds” (which are basically blocks of wood) and the wood is the thickness of plywood (about a quarter of an inch) and wider than Inserection.

There are a few larger rooms, even one with a mattress for fucking. Most include paper towels and a trash bag in them. These larger rooms lock and people cannot watch or get into them for more private time together. There’s also a space in the middle with a sling. I’ve seen the sling occupied twice. Once with a sloppy, ugly old man. Once with an incredibly hot guy.

There’s this “alley” and a jail bar space where I’ve been sucked through in the open as well. One incredibly useless space is set up like an adult theater, but of all the times I’ve been there, no one seems to hang out there. Then there’s a stinky smoking area in back (they claim it’s well ventilated, but it’s not).

Manifest is right down from a twink club called “Jungle” and when that closes, chances are you might catch some of those cream-filled boys looking to hook up since they didn’t get any there. But Manifest is also on the opposite side of the complex of a bathhouse called Eros, which I hear is fucking heaven but I have yet to try out.

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8 Comments on "Gloryhole Etiquette: Be a Good Cocksucker or Cocksitter or Cockserver"

  1. Swallows says:

    Look bottoms are there for tops and should be happy that a top lets you have that cock. I do not care if it takes you an hour to get him off you do it with a smile and thank him for his load at the end. Crying about them taking to long you should just not suck cock I am one that is in it to win it and will do pretty much what is needed to get fed. I am a feeder and will take cum how ever it is served I like to eat it most but a good blast in the ass can be nice. I find it funny that so many bottoms are begging for cock but want to have control I am here to serve that is what I was made for and love a man who knows what he wants and will tell me how to best serve him.

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  2. Mike says:

    Manifest can be good depending on what night and time. I find that LIGHTS are too BRIGHT in there. They need to work on that. CLub Eros is just behind Manifest in same strip mall and Ive had more fucking going on there. Never once have I fucked in Manifest. Just an ocassional BJ.

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  3. Justin says:

    I love both Insurrection and Manifest4U. I don’t have to go chasing the men at either location, I find that you have two kinds – ones that wander all over the place with no particular direction and those that come to unload and leave. In both locations I just put my lubed and ready ass up in the air and in short order someone is inserting their cock. I did not know about the pumping action of the top through the glory hole meaning he wants to fuck either – I’ll make sure to take that queue next time I’m sucking. Thanks Mark.

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  4. Another great post, my dear.

    Personally, I have never been one for gloryholes. This is one of those things that I would rather see in porn that do in real life, but there are several gloryhole videos that I have favorited on Xtube, so I enjoy the action.

    Nonetheless, this post certainly Re-Minds me to get out there and practice my oral skills!

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  5. Jeremy says:

    Sheesh, I have been ‘gloryholing’ it for years, and I assumed that when the top starts thrusting he is just being impatient. NOW I know he wants my ass! I feel like such a fool (so many wasted opportunities)

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  6. I kinda agree with Spermpig. Not necessarily that it should take 5 minutes, but I hate when I’m sucking a guy off for like 45 minutes to an hour, and he still is showing no signs of even being close to cumming.

    I HATE using my hands, but sometimes, you just have to.

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  7. MarkBentson says:

    Spermpig,

    I completely understand. But also understand that the top arrived with an agenda as well. When I go, the dude who gets my cum is the one who offers his ass. If you’re not offering ass, I’m just enjoying myself. Politely tap out if you’re only sucking.

    M

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  8. Spermpig says:

    As a sucker, the thing that disappoints me most is a top that takes too long to cum. We’re in a bookstore at a gloryhole. It’s meant to be quick and dirty– not some hour long lovemaking to your cock.

    If you can’t cum in 5 minutes- I’m on to a cock that can. I’m there for sperm.

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